Author DarkShadows Posted September 13, 2006 Author Share Posted September 13, 2006 Please read this post... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t97761/ The thing is it isn't as major as physically cheating, but he did break a boundary in which HE STATED first. Please do not bash me for that post but try to understand he made this boundary with me FIRST then I agreed to it... This is where the trust issue comes in hand. If he physically cheated I would've slit his throat. End of story. No msg boards no ok I'll take you back no nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
PandorasBox Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Yea he isn't going anywhere... Yet he's cheated twice, and I just found he cheated on me 2 weeks ago. Call it insecurities or jealousy. I call it a trust issue... He cheated twice but it was your choice to take him back. I understand you are insecure from what has happened in the past with him cheating, but thats the whole thing right there. You either learn to deal with your insecurity or you get out of a sitiation where you don't feel you have to always wonder what his words/actions mean. It will drive you batty. Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Please read this post... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t97761/ The thing is it isn't as major as physically cheating, but he did break a boundary in which HE STATED first. Please do not bash me for that post but try to understand he made this boundary with me FIRST then I agreed to it... This is where the trust issue comes in hand. If he physically cheated I would've slit his throat. End of story. No msg boards no ok I'll take you back no nothing. oh sorry I forgot that was your post. Ok so look at it this way he betrayed your trust by "cheating" aka lies now you are worried about him betraying you in other ways right? well you are kinda right a lie is a lie ...... broken promise a broken promise. Regardless if it was actual or not it is all relative to what your expectations are of him or what/who he tells you he is. He lied..... now if you cannot forgive him and keep looking for more dirt the situation is just going to get worse. I say move on.... now I certainly hope you are not serious about killing him if he did cheat on you. That is not in your best interest..... you will get in deep doo doo. Link to post Share on other sites
PandorasBox Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Sorry I didn't read the other post either until now. But given how you feel on things, I would say maybe move on. If he lies or has lied doesn't mean he will do anything else, although it could, but the bottom line is you would be always wondering if he was and thats not healthy. Link to post Share on other sites
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