Vanquish Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 And i let her leave a voicemail. WHat should i do? Call her back tomorrow? Tonight? She said call her back when i get this and she knows i have my phone on me all the time. So what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
superconductor Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 Unless she's telling you that you hair is on fire or something like that, there's really no need to be in contact with her at all, is there? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vanquish Posted September 12, 2006 Author Share Posted September 12, 2006 Ahh yes good point. Don't call her back and make her worry. But i don't want to be a dick either and not call her back within a reasonable amount of time. I heard the three call rule but im not sure it would work with her, because she knows i have my phone on all the time, and by not answer she will just get pissed or give up. But i guess if its really important she woulda told me over voicemail either way Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 Vanquish, I promise you that if its something that she wants you to hear (like she wants you back or something that could make you happy), she will definitely attempt again and again. If not, you have to digest the fact that she is not worth it......you are just going to get hurt here. Do not call back. Let her realize that it will take a bit more than a phone call to get your attention.....you don't want to hurt her you say???? Did she think of that as she continually hurts you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vanquish Posted September 13, 2006 Author Share Posted September 13, 2006 Well i did nc for another 2 more contacts 1 call and 1 text. and then i remembered the golden 1 call for every three times she calls you rule. I called her back and we talked about life right now and how things were going and not once did we mention a relationship or any of that, she admitted that she was still single and nothing was going on with her and this other guy. All went well and the conversation was quick, polite, and easy. Leaving with me having to go do homework and her having to talk to her girlfriend on the other line. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vanquish Posted September 13, 2006 Author Share Posted September 13, 2006 Any closing thoughts? Island Girl? Im gunna call her for her birthday and then nc until oct 6 which is homecomming then we shall truly see if she asks me or goes with another guy. Link to post Share on other sites
dr strangelove Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 I know this is probably not what you wish to hear but... Birthday? dont you have any hobbies? Homecoming? Usually doesnt the guy ask the girl? Maybe im feeling evil right now but Id get her back and then dumb her ass. . . But good luck anyways. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted September 21, 2006 Share Posted September 21, 2006 Sorry I didn't get this til now - out of town. --- I hope VANQUISH that all is well -- ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Vanquish Posted September 21, 2006 Author Share Posted September 21, 2006 All woulda been well if it wasn't for seeing her in person, tryign to say hi and having her give me the cold shoulder. Then finding out by a close friend a few weeks later that she went up to her old ex's college and hooked up with him for a night, only for him to tell her off again the next day. This happened two days after we broke up supposidly. Anyway im shocked to be honest i didn't think she had it in her, but to do that to someone is just ****ed up, especially the cold shoulder. Even if i did go to her birthday that night and chil with her parents and hit on her girlfriends only to have her pull them away within 3 minutes of talking. I just laugh about it now, shes probably hurting so bad and its all just a f'd situation. I'm surprised she didn't come running back to me after that. Oh well, we live and we learn. Link to post Share on other sites
fjk82 Posted September 21, 2006 Share Posted September 21, 2006 Yeah I would for sure stay away from this girl..Shes playing games and these are games you dont want to be a part of...Good luck And find a new girl that is worth your attention to take to your Homecoming.. Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Not sure if you want to hear this but if she is upset it isn't over you. Sounds like she is running around trying to fix a feeling of emptiness inside of her (going back to her ex, etc.). She may not even know how messed up she is. I know one thing for certain -- you should stay away from her. If you think you are hurt now, well, it can get waaay worse. Trust me. Because if you took her back after all of that she'll have no respect for you. It starts out with really good talks and then she'll try to bolt trampling on you over and over to get away. It is horrible. And you can do better. Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 And i let her leave a voicemail. WHat should i do? Call her back tomorrow? Tonight? She said call her back when i get this and she knows i have my phone on me all the time. So what should i do? You should go out, find a hot piece of ass, and have some fun. Link to post Share on other sites
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