I'm 30 years old but look 18 to most...

[Keith]

I have this really big problem and just don't know what to do. I'm 30 years old but I look very young for my age. It is a problem when it comes to meeting women. Women my age don't think I'm mature enough for them because I look like a kid to them.

 

On top of that, I'm only 5'5" and my face look like I'm 18 or 20. I'm also Asian and sometimes people don't realize we can look much younger than we really are.

 

But in fact, I'm a very mature person and act like I'm 30. I talk about things a 30 year old would talk about but that doesn't matter because people just don't want to give me a chance and get to know me. I'm a clean cut person and I dress nicely. I'm independent and have a good career.

 

Some of the women would rather be friends because they do enjoy talking and hanging out with me. We can have fun together but to them I look like a kid and they wouldn't date me. I guess it does matter to them what other people think when they see us together. When it comes down to it, looks does matter.

 

This is really depressing for me. It's like I'm getting punished for a crime I didn't commit.

 

What do some of you think I should do or can do? Ladies, please comment on this as well. I like to know what you think or would react to someone like me. Thanks!

[yes]

Hmm... Do you like younger ladies? Young looks wouldn't be a problem if the girl is young herself...

 

Also, try looking older by maybe growing a 3-day beard kinda thing... wearing clothes that underline that u'r not a teenager... u know - no funky bandanas... try to buff up -the muscle will underline your masculinity...

 

Try dating girls who are your height or less ... maybe also asian, since they'll also look young for their age ...

 

i agree - in the end, looks do matter, to an extent... so just try to go for girls with whom u'd look presentable ...

 

watch out for other things as well - make sure they dont turn u down for reasons other than this - i mean u might be sure that your young look is what they didnt like about u, but how dya know for sure?...

 

best of luck,

 

-yes

I have this really big problem and just don't know what to do. I'm 30 years old but I look very young for my age. It is a problem when it comes to meeting women. Women my age don't think I'm mature enough for them because I look like a kid to them. On top of that, I'm only 5'5" and my face look like I'm 18 or 20. I'm also Asian and sometimes people don't realize we can look much younger than we really are. But in fact, I'm a very mature person and act like I'm 30. I talk about things a 30 year old would talk about but that doesn't matter because people just don't want to give me a chance and get to know me. I'm a clean cut person and I dress nicely. I'm independent and have a good career.

 

Some of the women would rather be friends because they do enjoy talking and hanging out with me. We can have fun together but to them I look like a kid and they wouldn't date me. I guess it does matter to them what other people think when they see us together. When it comes down to it, looks does matter. This is really depressing for me. It's like I'm getting punished for a crime I didn't commit.

 

What do some of you think I should do or can do? Ladies, please comment on this as well. I like to know what you think or would react to someone like me. Thanks!

[Tony T]

Count your blessings. Older people spend billions of dollars a year to look younger. I guess it's a bxtch no matter where you are in life agewise.

 

I'd say take yes' advice and find young chicks you'd like to be with. Many men are quite attracted to those younger ladies.

[velvet]

I agree that a younger women would be an easier catch.

 

I was engaged to a spanish man who is sixteen years older than me. He was short, loosing hair, and I was this hot houchy momma fresh out of highschool but I loved him. He swept me off my feet and I think the younger the easier to sweep them off their feet.

 

If it's an older women you want you have to be more patient and not come on strong. Become friends first and let a r/s fall into place naturally.

I have this really big problem and just don't know what to do. I'm 30 years old but I look very young for my age. It is a problem when it comes to meeting women. Women my age don't think I'm mature enough for them because I look like a kid to them. On top of that, I'm only 5'5" and my face look like I'm 18 or 20. I'm also Asian and sometimes people don't realize we can look much younger than we really are. But in fact, I'm a very mature person and act like I'm 30. I talk about things a 30 year old would talk about but that doesn't matter because people just don't want to give me a chance and get to know me. I'm a clean cut person and I dress nicely. I'm independent and have a good career.

 

Some of the women would rather be friends because they do enjoy talking and hanging out with me. We can have fun together but to them I look like a kid and they wouldn't date me. I guess it does matter to them what other people think when they see us together. When it comes down to it, looks does matter. This is really depressing for me. It's like I'm getting punished for a crime I didn't commit.

 

What do some of you think I should do or can do? Ladies, please comment on this as well. I like to know what you think or would react to someone like me. Thanks!