ted1011 Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 i'm in my 3rd year of high school and iam very shy around girls [really]. I mean i dont have a single freind thats a girl, as a matter of fact ive never really had a true conversation with a girl throuhout my whole high school years. Im to scared to talk to them because im scared of wat they might think of me if i do. [omg im pathetic] well anyways the only girl ive ever liked during high school (still do) had no idea how badly i was attracted to her, until...... i told my friend and he oppened his mouth about it and she found out. Now its been some time since she has found out and ive nevver spoken to her well becuause im to scared. And worst of all ive gotten information that she thinks im a loser, ugly {mugshot} , and that she would never even think of talkin with to som1 with my appearance. but even after i was given this information i still like her. im to attrated to her even though i dont know how her personality is. i jus wish she knew how i really feel about her and maybe shell at least take back the negative things she thought about me in the past. well thats it if any1 has any advice they can give to this miserable soul plz plz plz do so. -----well im gonna cry myself to sleep now Link to post Share on other sites
molimo140 Posted September 16, 2006 Share Posted September 16, 2006 First of all I have to say that you can't live your life based on what other people tell you. It's a terrible way to judge things, rumors are started so easily. Secondly, I can understand your fears of talking to girls, but really though you shouldn't be afraid. It's an..unfortunate truth that some people judge someone instantly when they meet them, however thankfully it's not the case with most people. Introduce yourself to strangers, smile, be friendly. Female friends are great to have, you can talk to them about things that you can't really talk about with guy friends. Finally, it sounds like you are only attracted to this girl physically, and that's generally how an attraction starts. You really need to learn more about this girl, and that will involve talking ot her. Don't worry about what your friend told her. Anyone who believes, and goes entirely off of, what someone else told them about a person they don't even know sounds..at least to me, like a terrible person. Let this girl get to know the real you, not what someone told her about you. Who knows...she may even like you. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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