heartsick_but_lucky Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 First off, thanks to all who take the time reading this. To start off, I met a young woman who goes by the name of Maribelle. We did go to school together, but I didn't really get to know her during those years, but earlier this year, I ran into my ex-gf from high school while I visiting home, and after she invited me to go out with her and some of her friends that night, I figured "why not?" and tagged along. That's when I ran into Maribelle, only she was just.....wow..... unbelievably gorgeous. From that moment, we started dating and it did get physical on a few occasions, I'll admit. I met her parents and sisters, and I love all of them. They're good people. Even though I lived almost two hours away from her, I went to see her as often as I could. She would make me feel good about myself, and we would make each other laugh. The closer we were getting, the more I was starting to feel for her, up to the point that I wanted to tell her exactly how she makes me feel. Last month, I decided to do just that. I told her that I was starting to fall for her. Basically, what I said was that those feelings for her were there, but I would understand and respect her as always even if she didn't want to take things serious. I asked her to at least accept that I feel that way toward her. Well, she sent me an email saying that she only wants to be friends. She added that she tried very hard to feel something for me, but she just couldn't at the time and she was very sorry. All she could offer me was her friendship. It did hurt, but I told her that I repected her choice, and I'll accept her offer of friendship. Well, she now goes to school where I live, and we've hung out several times since she moved here. For the most part, it's been purely platonic. I won't lie, I still want her as more than "just a friend". She still calls me, telling me she's thinking about me, or she invites me to her dorm to hang out. Yesterday, something happened that I really didn't expect and it has scrambled my ability to think. I invited her over to my place to watch a movie and go for a walk around the duck pond. Well we started watching a flick when she fell asleep in my arms. Let me tell you, I missed holding her like that and watching her sleep. Then, she tilted her head up and she kissed me. I just held her until it was time to take her back to her dorm. When I walked her to the door, we really didn't say much, other than me telling her to call if she needed anything, then hugged each other and left. How do I explain this? What do I make of it? Should I just forget about what happened or is there something more, what? Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Let me ask you, during the time you 2 were dating, did you at all make a move like kiss her? A major mistake you made with her was revealing your feelings, you never do that with a girl because it gives them the upper-hand. in addition the chase was over because she you revealed yourself. IME, even if a girl proclaims putting you into the friends zone, it means absolutely nothing...i mean unless if they already have a bf...but even with bf it may also mean nothing. Next time you meet her, make your move. grab her and go for the kiss Link to post Share on other sites
Tshepi22 Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Amen to that!!! i could not agree with you more, you do that and see whats going to happen.... the kiss could mean she wants you as more than a friend sweett lol Gud luck Link to post Share on other sites
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