Guest Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Hi anybody, This is my first time using this site and I would really appreciate any insight or feedback. I guess I'll keep this as short as possible. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. we have broken up once or twice but were never able to spend more than a month apart. The only reason we ever broke up is because we were having a big fight. My girlfriend said it was over and had been gone for over a week. I ended up hooking up with another girl for the night (but didn't even sleep with her). My girlfriend then said I cheated on her and started dating this crack-head for around a month. She completely cut-off all communication and I thought it was over (but I definitely didn't want it to be). All it took for us to get back together was for us to run into eachother. We laid eyes on eachother and pretty much got back together that night. Things were good for awhile until she started bringing up "cheating" all the time. She couldn't get over it and maybe I didn't do enough to help her. I really love her. For the past year we have been dealing with this incident and we have seemed to be getting nowhere. Lately she has been getting mad at me for all sorts of things. She would get mad because I went fishing and didn't answer her phone calls while I was gone. Not only that, she would then dislike whoever I was fishing with and want me to stop fishing with them (the only problem is that it is my boss). She basically hates my boss and my job and all the people I work with. About 2 weeks ago I had to go on an overnight trip for business to one of our other offices. My boss wanted to do some fishing while we were on our trip. I lied to my girlfriend and told her that I had to go and it was strictly business. When she asked I told her we went fishing. she got so mad (mainly because I lied) that she left me. she would talk to me everyday but she would try to convince me she wasn't coming back. After about a week of her being gone (we have lived together for over 2 years) she started staying again and it was awsome. IT was as if our flame had been rekindled. I started doing things in my life to help me give more time to her. I quit the band I was in and started going to church again. I really wanted to be happy (with her). The only thing is that my boss has still been trying to get me to go fishing. He is new in the area and has no one else to hang out with. I don't want to go but it is hard to tell him no because I have to see him everyday. He is sort of immature in that he will hold a grudge if I completely stop fishing with him. (what do I do?). I already want a new job but it isn't exactly an overnight process. This last weekend my girlfriend was going out of town for the night and my boss had asked me on Friday to go fishing. I told him no but when I found out my girlfriend was going to be gone all weekend i asked her if it was OK if I went fishing with him. (wrong move). She now thinks I am going back to my old ways and hasnt talked to me for three days. is she coming back. Can she really end a 5 year relationship over fishing and one lie. We have always thought we were eachothers soulmates. help me Link to post Share on other sites
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