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I've decided that I hate the internet. My reason for this being that it has made it easier for my boyfriend to acess porn and look at pics of nearly naked girls... who aren't me! what happened to the good old days where you had to go to the store to buy a porno magizine?!I particularly hate this website: http://www.gorgeousgamers.com/ . where he spends a majority of his day, after work, browsing pictures of half-naked girls and instant messaging back and fourth with his friends about how "that girl has awsome tits (link included)" or "I'd hit that". I know it's not cheating BUT it is sleasey and makes me feel like crap. I feel like I'm never enough for him. He doesn't do these things infront of me or even while I'm around, but when I get home from work and he leaves Web pages, Instant messages, and ect. open on the computer, yes I do read them... it's snooping, but it's there and I didn't have to do anything extra to find it out. I've talked to him and it doesn't really seem to make a difference at all. It hurts like hell that he wants all these other girls and not me. I'm his girlfried, and I'm not ugly, why can't I be enough?:(

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Okay, why don't you use a little reverse psychology? Grab a laptop or use a computer in the house, go to some hot male body sites and browse the hell out of them. Don't let him see you do it; if he is computer literate he will know where you've been browsing by looking at your history. You need to make sure you’re logged into the same sessions he is for this to work. You may need to do this for a while before he catches it, but I think you will get a reaction.

 

On another note, just because a guy browses porn sites does not make him a bad person. I really think if you just came in when he is on these sites, make a comment like "Oh wow, I'd do her!" you might be surprised at the reaction you get. Not only that, it actually may heat things up sexually between you two.

 

Fantasy is not a bad thing; if you use it together you can really turn up the passion in your relationship. Guys are going to scope porn whether you like it or not, so my suggestion is to either get on board with him or chance pushing him away from you.

 

 

 

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Hark! Can you hear that? It's the sound of a spammer disguised as a poster!

 

no real person real problem, jackass. I hate that damn web site and I'm supporting it in NO way, shape, or form.

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