my friend put a grl b 4 me.

[moises786]

well here it goes..

i usually call my friend to hang out with after i get out of work at 330. so today i call him and i tell him " yo i just got out of target"

 

friend: what did you say?

me: where you at?

friend: at home. ( said it as if i knew that you know?)

me: well i just got out of target !

friend: what did u say agian? (girl laugher in the background)

me: I JUST GOT OUT OF WORK! ( i wasnt screaming angry)

 

frined: wat thats all u called me for?

so by now im pissed because since with his with his girl that his house he has to act cool

so i say " watever men i guess ur having a fun tim eim going home."

 

and his all like wat??

so i hung up so now im pissed the fact that his girl who is slut and he got sexually favor from is at his house so he has to bring down his friends to sound so cool.

 

well the reason y i bring his is up is to feel that peopl are on my side so whos on my side?? the reason why i call this girl a slut is bcuz one of my friends was tryin to get with her and he took her out and she tolled her that she wasnt interested in him so he was heart broken and accused me of trying to steal her from him when i nevr found her attrative so my friend (i think) tolled me that he feels bad that he accused me of trying to get with her when i didnt. so then his girl says that she likes me and then two weeks later she says that she doesnt have feels 4 me so im like ok watever it wasn't like i found her attractive.

 

so now she says that she like my frined the one who tried looking cool in front of her today. so then he gets with her but dnt go out and just fool around with each other so then the summer pass and til to day my frined has her come over to his house and puts me down i n front of her. so basically im just pissed 4 how he has put me down 4.

[jonesgirly]

ahh...the power of putang.......

[crazy_grl]

When I first started reading this, I thought you were a guy who was being petty and strangely offended by a guy friend wanting to hang out with a girl over you.

 

At this part

so by now im pissed because since with his with his girl that his house he has to act cool

so i say " watever men i guess ur having a fun tim eim going home.

I started to think you were a girl, cause you sounded really jealous.

 

the reason why i call this girl a slut is bcuz one of my friends was tryin to get with her and he took her out and she tolled her that she wasnt interested in him so he was heart broken and accused me of trying to steal her from him when i nevr found her attrative so my friend (i think) tolled me that he feels bad that he accused me of trying to get with her when i didnt.

 

After this, I'm thinking you're a guy again... Unless this girl is bi, which is possible. I hope you don't take offense, but I'm really not sure what gender you are. I checked your profile, and it says you're male, but for all I know, you could have just clicked the wrong one on accident.

 

If you were a girl who was into him or a guy who's into the girl he's with, I'd understand where you're coming from. I'd still think you were being somewhat petty and immature, but I'd see your point of view. If you're not interested in either of them, I don't get what you're so upset about. From what you said, you didn't have plans with your friend, and I don't think you have any right to get angry at him for spending time with her. Maybe if she was your ex or something that'd be different, but...

 

Also, that girl doesn't sound slutty to me. Usually sluttiness involves sleeping around or making out with a lot of guys at the very least. She went out with one of your friends and wasn't interested in him after he took her out. That happens. Then you heard she was interested in you. Then she was interested in your friend.

 

She may or may not have had interest in you. You only know by rumor, and that's nothing to base your opinion of someone on. Who knows why she decided she was interested in your friend, but she is. Maybe she was from the beginning or maybe something happened to change her mind.

 

In short, you need to calm down.

[moises786]

When I first started reading this, I thought you were a guy who was being petty and strangely offended by a guy friend wanting to hang out with a girl over you.

 

At this part

 

I started to think you were a girl, cause you sounded really jealous.

 

 

 

After this, I'm thinking you're a guy again... Unless this girl is bi, which is possible. I hope you don't take offense, but I'm really not sure what gender you are. I checked your profile, and it says you're male, but for all I know, you could have just clicked the wrong one on accident.

 

If you were a girl who was into him or a guy who's into the girl he's with, I'd understand where you're coming from. I'd still think you were being somewhat petty and immature, but I'd see your point of view. If you're not interested in either of them, I don't get what you're so upset about. From what you said, you didn't have plans with your friend, and I don't think you have any right to get angry at him for spending time with her. Maybe if she was your ex or something that'd be different, but...

 

Also, that girl doesn't sound slutty to me. Usually sluttiness involves sleeping around or making out with a lot of guys at the very least. She went out with one of your friends and wasn't interested in him after he took her out. That happens. Then you heard she was interested in you. Then she was interested in your friend.

 

She may or may not have had interest in you. You only know by rumor, and that's nothing to base your opinion of someone on. Who knows why she decided she was interested in your friend, but she is. Maybe she was from the beginning or maybe something happened to change her mind.

 

In short, you need to calm down.

 

ok ok this chick when around and said to my other friends that she liked em i dnt knw if thats slutty or just wierd. i stated that i was attracted to her so jeaslous i dnt know????? but im pissed at my friend for being with he be cuz she hurt one of my friends jon who is also very good friends with the guy im pissed at so that why im mad at her and him but whatever . Ah that reminds me shes with some other dude now not the guy im pissed at with sum other guy. so i guess thats not slutty 4 girls now adays to like five guys but whatever . like my so called friend who im pissed at said " moises you should take things to heart" there for im wasting my time on his. so i guess i shouldnt take this **** to the heart. a

 

One again my mother is right your only true friend in the world is your mom.

 

thanks 4 your time this **** wat a waste of a post **** YOU AND YOU

[crazy_grl]

Ah that reminds me shes with some other dude now not the guy im pissed at with sum other guy. so i guess thats not slutty 4 girls now adays to like five guys but whatever .

 

Or maybe it's just not polite to slap negative labels on people, especially when you don't seem to consider their side. Not saying this girl is going about everything perfectly, but you seem to be harshly judgemental of her. Seems like she might not have very good judgement getting involved with guys who are friends with other guys she's been out with, but I'm guessing she's on the young side just like you.

 

Unless you've left something major out, then there's no reason for you to be this upset with her. And it's possible that your friend needs to learn to handle rejection better. Not every girl he likes and takes out is going to want to date him. Spending time with different people before you decide who you want to be with is how dating works.

 

One again my mother is right your only true friend in the world is your mom.

 

 

thanks 4 your time this **** wat a waste of a post **** YOU AND YOU

 

I know you came here just looking for people to agree with you, but that's no reason to cuss them out when they don't. This is advice forum and I gave you my advice and my opinion. People aren't always going to agree with you or do what you want them to. No reason to get childish about it.

[moises786]

Not every girl he likes and takes out is going to want to date him. Spending time with different people before you decide who you want to be with is how dating works.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I know you came here just looking for people to agree with you, but that's no reason to cuss them out when they don't. This is advice forum and I gave you my advice and my opinion. People aren't always going to agree with you or do what you want them to. No reason to get childish about it.

IM SORRY THAT I BLOW UP TARGET IS GETTIN TO ME SORRY

 

also i underastand that about dating but not a group of guys that are all friends like one cheerleader dating all of the football team is sluty also sshe does cocain. so i guess im the enemy here the drug free guy. who does want his friend b drag down to drugs

[Moai]

I blow off my friends for girls (in my case, A girl), and they do the same to me. And more power to them. ANd we never blow off an event, but a "just hanging out" kind of vibe, go with the chick! Duh!

[sibernox]

"Bros before hoes"?

[moises786]

"Bros before hoes"?

YUP AMEN BROTHER!!

[moises786]

I blow off my friends for girls (in my case, A girl), and they do the same to me. And more power to them. ANd we never blow off an event, but a "just hanging out" kind of vibe, go with the chick! Duh!

 

yup any thing 4 ur own gain watever ur selfish hate people who do thing for there own gain nvr 4 there families nor friends

[fjk82]

Awww ...Typical...Hes getting action and thats all hes caring about right now.....Not sayin that its right but this happens to often..

[Moai]

yup any thing 4 ur own gain watever ur selfish hate people who do thing for there own gain nvr 4 there families nor friends

 

Who is actually being selfish? Isn't it selfish to expect friends to hang out all the time, instead of pursuing a romantic relationship?

 

I'd rather have sex than hang out with my friends, any time. And they are the same way. See, my friends and I are normal heterosexual males.

 

It isn't as if there were concrete plans to do something, like go to a ballgame, or a birthday, or helping the friend move. All that was blown off is the fact that after work, you pal around. BFD. Don't you have anyone else to hang out with? Surely you are aware that a relationship with a woman provides more than your friendship with him, right?

 

I see my friends all the time. When one of them is starting a relationship, I see them less. This is expected. If the relationship proceeds to marriage (which has happened a few times) I see them even more infrequently. It does not hurt my feelings in the least. I am actually happy for them. Aren't you selfish if you aren't happy for them?

 

As far as "bros before hoes" goes, that is true if a buddy's girlfriend hits on you--don't sleep with her. If a friend is having a rough time, of course you go and hang out and cheer him up. If his car is broken down, you go help him out.

 

Let's say that every Friday you have a regular poker game. Does that mean that you would blow off a date on Friday for the poker game, because they are your "bros"? I wouldn't, and I don't think that's selfish.

 

And the issue here isn't family, either. Who said that they would blow off their family for anyone? If I understand the thread here (it's hard to decipher, as punctuation and grammar are lacking somewhat), a guy got off work, called his buddy to hang out like usual, his buddy had a chick over and didn't want to hang out. [sarcasm]Wow, what a dick! How could he do that?[/sarcasm]

[Starr1]

Well, I don't know how it goes everywhere else but my mates and I are in our twenties, all my mates have girlfriends and the bros before hoes rule is taken very strictly.

 

I mean, the 7 close friends I have and I play adult soccer on Tuesday nights and do other things and on Saturdays we do things as well such as play poker, they all get drunk, we go out etc.

 

My buddies have turned down many opportunities to go out with their girls, get a little action etc to go out with the boys on Tuesdays and Saturdays. Our nights are sacred & we do them (& reschedule other things on those days) cause we know while girls will always come and go, the boys will always be waiting for them the following day to lift their spirits and be there waiting with a case of beer. Friendship is a thing to be valued, more than just about everything else.

 

With that being said, if we want to get together to do something not on those days, the boys don't mind because it's spontaneous and is not PLANNED. If one of the boys calls me and says, hey, I can't make the get together on Thursday, gotta take my girl out, no probs but if he were to say, hey, can't make the get together on Tuesday, gotta take my girl out, there would be a big problem.

 

I guess it kinda depends on everyone's circumstances but the way I see it, if you had something planned and instead, your friend hung out with his girl, he's a fool. If your get togethers are more spontaneous, it's his right to hang out with others.