Timberlane Posted September 17, 2006 Share Posted September 17, 2006 Your husband sounds quite sexually repressed. Gah. Link to post Share on other sites
Author calalily Posted September 18, 2006 Author Share Posted September 18, 2006 You all helped me a lot. I had a talk with my husband as JadeStar and Bob Dole suggested, and thought I would let you know that all is well. Trying something new may have "triggered" something for him and that put him off, or theres something else going on. Yes, something did trigger him - we knew someone remotely who killed himself, and left a whole lot of porn behind for his separated wife to find. Hubby just thought that this was an awful thing to do and be, and reading said book just cemented his ideas. In fact, I have a question - since that behavior is pretty unusual, is it possible he IS dealing with some porn addiction problem (that he hasn't told you about), and what you're seeing is his early attempts to change? He did say that that's how he feels he would end up. I just wanted to say thanks so much for all the empathy and understanding - I really appreciated it. Gave me perspective past the hurt. I will also drop in from time to time and see if I can give that same gift to others. Link to post Share on other sites
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