Things that make you go Hmmmm

[baffled]

Hey all first post, great site and was wondering if y'all could point me in the right direction.

Situation is my g/f is now up north for a wedding of a girlfriend that she met one time we broke up. She's invited me along the whole time but due to financial reasons I can't make it. Now running at the same time a guy she was with during that time has moved up there as well but they don't know each other so he's not at the wedding. A mutual friend has mentioned that they are communicating via email and are planning to meet up on the friday night. The longer I type this the dumber I feel. She knows nothing of me knowing this, so I'm giving the benefit blah,blah. She gives me a phone call at 4pm saying she's tired from getting up at 430am to get the plane at 7am so she will be crashing out pretty soon. OK. Smell the rat from here! Let it go and call at 9:30pm then 10:30pm no answer. Knowing she's probably up to her old tricks I try not to call again so as to not look like the pharkin embarassment I am she calls the next morning at 10 I don't answer then calls again at 11 I answer and its a just wanted to say Hi phone call running out of credit b.s. Anyway the background is last december she cheated on me with some dude from a club and she was trying to let him down gently by keeping the phone relationship going for 5 months!! How is it that some people are so insecure that they constantly need attention from men/ I can't handle the phreakin lies anymore it's a constant thing with this girl but she still loves me.?l.Confusing when someone tells you one thing then all the actions don't add up. It's like she can't tell me what she wants. Is this normal? Do I need to break up with her to set her free or is she using me as her rock to rock the cock? We've been together apparently for 10yrs on and off 3 times, slept with1 friend second break up then cheated on me with another friend the next year, didn't know then she left Ov.Seas and met this guy she went out with Friday night Tired of the fake smiles;P Has anyone else been in a situation where someone will continually talk trash to you??

[Spectre]

Why do you wanna stay with this person? She doesnt love you. She cheats on you, then you somehow forgive her. Then she lies to you to go see some ex bf. What is it with chicks? Learn to stay the f*ck away from ex bf's, I dont care how close you were, you broke up for a reason, and it isnt fair to the current guy your with. If you cant stay away from an ex, dont get involved with someone else its that simple. Im tired of people trying to have their cake and eat it too.

 

Just because she was going to a city where her ex lives doesnt mean she needs to see him, plus she lied to you about it. Dump her, call her on her sh*t. Tell her you know she was contacting her ex and planned to meet with him, tell her that this combined with the fact she cheated in the past has made you unable to trust her. Then walk away from this 2 cent ho. Seriously, she cheats on you with your friends? What drives people to be such whores. Girls can get PLENTY of male attention without having to get naked for a strange man and have sex with him, I dont know why thats always the necessary thing to do.