A little (long)

[Guest]

Hi

 

I've come on here because I feel I cannot talk to anyone about how I feel at the moment.

 

This is a little long but I hope someone reads it.

 

 

It's all started when someone at work was being very flirty with me and as for myself being single, I didn't mind it. This has been going on for about 2 - 3 months. We started talking about how I should get an appartment with her because she's in university studying or how I should come up and see her. When I told her I was leaving my job in hope for a new one, she was suprised I didn't offer my number to her.

 

So I gave her my number and ended up texting her quite alot on my cellphone most day's (my memory even ended up being full due to messages at one point).

 

All is going well untill I find out one thing. She has a boyfriend. She has been with him since February and it's a long distance relationship. She doesn't talk about him much inless I see her texting someone and she would tell me it's her boyfriend.

 

Another time, Someone else at work was talking to her and she say's shes fed up with her boyfriend and afew days later, she asked me what I was doing one night. sadly I was working but told her i'd still make the effort to come out and see her for afew hours at the bar.

 

So I keep getting the text's of when i'm comming etc etc. As i arrive she seems pleased to see me, she's had afew drink's but she's not drunk if you understand.

 

As she's talking to my friend i'm waiting at the bar and she suddenly leans on me and starts stroking me all around my back and chest. As we start to sit down and chat, her friend feel's ill and she told me that she wanted to stay but she can't leave her friend. So I said no problem and she left within 25mins of me arriving.

 

I asked her to come out last night for a chat and she said at first she might but later told me she was too tired due to work but wanted me to take pictures insted.

 

 

Now here's the thing. I've enjoyed her company from day 1 and I do like her quite alot but i'm not an ******* and understand she has a boyfriend.

 

What should I do though?

 

I don't feel 100% in telling her how I feel incase I scare her off

 

I also don't think it's right in messing around with someone when she's with someone but she's always been flirty with me at work, on the phone or even on nights out.

 

I just hope someone could give me an idea or anyone who has been in a similar situation to me could give abit of advice.

 

Thanks for reading.

[JackJack]

IMO she comes across as a possible easy lay. Unless thats what you're hoping for, I wouldn't bother. You already stated she had a b/f and wouldn't go after someone who had one. Most people in a committed relationship wouldn't be texting/calling and sure wouldn't be rubbing someone elses chest. Its all in what you want to do. Personally I would leave her be.