turtle32 Posted September 17, 2006 Share Posted September 17, 2006 Ok my girfiend broke up or i guess you could call it that last wed it was my falut i didnt show her attention but waht im really needing to know can you all tell me if she still cares or if i have a shot at a second chnace? here is somethings she has said to my family or her friends or to me. She said "it wasnt that she didnt like me but she had been thinking that we was to busy to see each other" which was my fault and my choice cause i was stupid. she told my sister that "she was afraid i would hurt her again" she said she "didnt want anything right now"! she said "it wouldnt be fair to say Wait" she tells her friends "she dont want to talk about it when thye ask her about us" she went to a family birthday party with me on aug 27th and sent me a text that evening "thnaking me for inviting her she had fun" "she said the time she spent with me meant alot to her" she told the night i went to talk to her at her house about us not being toghter anymore that she said "if in the future we tried i probally wouldnt try cause of my pride" and things like that she has told my friend that she "cares alot about me" her friends said she was crazy about me i just dont understand is she done does she hurt or miss me and do i need to leave her alone and not contact her i sent her some flowers and a letter but she said she just she wanted to be friends. she has said she wanted some time for her self but i do know all of her friends are just broke up or divorced thier husbands so she is getting some bad influence so what should i do wait awhile and then contact her or let it go and just forget it i ant her in my life but i am thinking i screwed that up. please help me with this to understand all these things she is saying or said. Link to post Share on other sites
superconductor Posted September 17, 2006 Share Posted September 17, 2006 As soon as you hear the "let's just be friends" speech, you may as well pack your bags and hop on the train to No Contact station. It's over, dude. Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted September 17, 2006 Share Posted September 17, 2006 she said she just she wanted to be friends. Game over. The relationship is 100% officially finished. Link to post Share on other sites
Author turtle32 Posted September 17, 2006 Author Share Posted September 17, 2006 I post one of probally the one post that has a chance to get back alot more than most and everyone that replys said it is over no chnace i dont understrand you set there and tell some one that cheated on there partner that do this and do that and he or she will return and mine just was lack of commuicating with each other and never had a mean word and you all siad just cause she said she hoped we could always be friends i am doomed and i probally am but i also know God can do anything and i will trust in him . you all need to think about what you tell some on here you cuase there death not me i have plenty to live for and if she dont want me there is plenty that is waiting to go out with me no big deal i just really like her and would love for her to be back in my life and i was just hoping you all could give me some tips aon how i should handle it instead of just saying it is over . Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted September 17, 2006 Share Posted September 17, 2006 You should consider taking the time to put in punctuation and actually try to express yourself clearly. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted September 17, 2006 Share Posted September 17, 2006 every man's goal in the dating world should be to get some good sex, good times and then split and move on to the next chick. the whole idea is to dump them before they dump you. and whatever you do, don't ever get married. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted September 17, 2006 Share Posted September 17, 2006 That paragraph was big wolloping pile of crap. I don't think anyone has the attention span to finish that whole thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author turtle32 Posted September 17, 2006 Author Share Posted September 17, 2006 I was in a hurry and am sorry for the typing Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted September 18, 2006 Share Posted September 18, 2006 every man's goal in the dating world should be to get some good sex, good times and then split and move on to the next chick. the whole idea is to dump them before they dump you. and whatever you do, don't ever get married. For a second, I thought that you were being serious. Link to post Share on other sites
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