never lose hope

[Guest]

I dated a girl for 6yrs and ended up engaged, things werent the greatest and we had our share of problems, but regardless I loved the girl with all my heart, one day I came home to an empty house and things were over, this completely destroyed my world, we had been high school sweetheart, she was all I ever had known...the break up was the hardest thing I ever had to do I was very immature at the time and didnt see the error in my ways, but after seeing some people and taking time to re-evaluate myself I found myself becoming a better person, but I never got over her. over 3yrs has passed and I tried several relationships and no one has ever come close to her, and we live in towns close to one another and I always had to hear news of her, she ended up seeing a guy and she got pregnant and soon after she married him, and a year ago bought a house. All I ever wanted in 3yrs was to be with her, and after all this I thought all hope was lost.

Recently I get a e-mail from her and we start talking and find out her feelings for me are just as strong as mine, shes not happy in her marriage, she feels she was basically forced into marrying the guy from her family. So we recently got together and long story short, sparks flew and its like the 3yrs apart never existed. I think we love each other more now than ever we have a new found respect for one another. But I find with happiness comes struggles, some of my family and some of her family are dead set against it, but people change and regardless what anyone thinks we love each other and we plan on spending the rest of our lifes together, its like we are just meant to be. its hard now cause she has to go through the divorce process and now there is a child involved. and her soon to be ex husband says he will fight her till the end cause shes coming back to me. so things seem complicated in the near future, but anything in life worth having is worth fighting for.

 

I dont know why I am really posting this here, maybe for some input or advice, or just to get my story out there and to show theres never a reason to stop fighting for what you believe. so please any input is welcome. I get people who are happy for me and people who tell me what a mistake I am making. all I know is I am following my heart

 

-J

[heyduh]

i'm a sucker for love stories

[fjk82]

Wow...I believe in following your heart..It does not matter what others may think because you are the only one that really knows..

 

Good luck with the future..

 

Right now I am holding on to some sort of "hope" but I do believe its goin to crash down on me as you can read in my other post about my current situation..Just wanted to say Im happy for you..Good Luck..And I still believe.. Because you have to

[Rooster_DAR]

I would get to know her a little again first, she may not be upfront with what's really happening. Her family forced her to marry someone she didn't love? I'm not sure I buy that. If this is accurate, indeed it's a great love story.

 

(Sounds too good to be true)

 

I would possibly seek validation from other people that know her (on her husbands side) and find out if that's true or not.

 

Good luck

[LaughMachine]

It's not hope on everyone here behalfs but on your behalf hope was possible. False hope here can be very damaging. What a bizarre way for things to turn out, bet you would have never thought. And ya got a little bebe on your hands too. I think thats sweet and maybe you guys are true highschool sweet hearts after all! Good luck with everything:)

[Guest]

I would like to thank everyones well wishing, I might add things are going great, shes starting the divorce process now and what a mess that is...hes dragging her through the mud just cause its me shes going to...but gotta do what the heart says

I would get to know her a little again first, she may not be upfront with what's really happening. Her family forced her to marry someone she didn't love? I'm not sure I buy that. If this is accurate, indeed it's a great love story.

 

(Sounds too good to be true)

 

I would possibly seek validation from other people that know her (on her husbands side) and find out if that's true or not.

 

Good luck

 

and in reply to this, we have been spending alot of time talking, and spending time with each other, alot has happened in the time past but feels like we never skipped a beat, I wouldnt say were both completely different people, just more mature, grown up, and have alot more respect for each other. And if there is anyone I know in this world it is this girl I know she didnt wanna marry this guy from the get go, I know her family didnt force her persay...there was no gun to head....but everyone was telling her it was the right thing to do...so she listened to them, instead of following her heart...I might add we were getting back together before, until she found out she was pregnant, then she did what she thought was right then, and I am glad she did cause the time apart, made me see the errors in my ways. but I can garentee you this is indeed a great love story.