Gina Posted February 21, 2002 Share Posted February 21, 2002 I am very causious when i meet someone new, even more so when they are all over me but as soon as i start to like them they back off. Talk about playing the game - i'm a woman and i'm not into games, i try to be as honest as possible. Will a man only be interested as long as i seem disinterested? Link to post Share on other sites
lefty smooches Posted February 21, 2002 Share Posted February 21, 2002 Sometimes that is the case, male or female. Those who seem to not really want you( aka disinterested) you want more and vice versa. It's the way the human condition seems to work. However after the initial awkwardness, etc, the "game" playing should come to a minimum. I can understand meeting somebody new and the trust factor and the getting to know factor and the does he/she like me etc factor, but after awhile the whole "GAME" situation just leads to, either move on or go for it. And stop playing "GAMES". Those who say I love you on a first or second or even third date you should be cautious of definitely. BUt it seems many people fall for this, sad to say, but be true to yourself and do what you feel is right, don't jump into anything too quickly, but don't play the "Games" and wait and wait and wait... And if the guy is playing "games" well go find another guy, because usually games have winners and losers and your emotions and heart is fragile enough to be playing around with somebody who isn't on the same page as you. ------ I am very causious when i meet someone new, even more so when they are all over me but as soon as i start to like them they back off. Talk about playing the game - i'm a woman and i'm not into games, i try to be as honest as possible. Will a man only be interested as long as i seem disinterested? Link to post Share on other sites
velvet Posted February 22, 2002 Share Posted February 22, 2002 I think the reason men back off is becuase they dont know what they want. I also believe that if he wants you, he will let you know and only play games with you if you let him. I am very causious when i meet someone new, even more so when they are all over me but as soon as i start to like them they back off. Talk about playing the game - i'm a woman and i'm not into games, i try to be as honest as possible. Will a man only be interested as long as i seem disinterested? Link to post Share on other sites
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