FredTravels Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 It is an odd and awful situation. As drastic as it sounds, you may have to give hubby the me or them talk. First it was SIL dissin you and now she has brought on BIL to diss you, and BIL is now (via his complaining to your hubby) trying to bring hubby up to diss you. Hubby needs to grow some cojones and take a stand--one way or the other. However, you also need to be prepared that blood is indeed thicker than water and I imagine it is a lot thicker with twins involved and coupled with the fact that you and hubby are relatively new and have had some serious arguments regarding your pregnancy. It is not a good place to be. And how does one skate in a front yard in September? Link to post Share on other sites
michelangelo Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 If he wants to go with you then he can. If you don't show up at the other folks house it will not make their opinion of you change one bit. eff 'em if they can't take a joke. If your plan for the new year is to not repeat the mistakes of the past and launch the year with good things, then I definitely vote for going to a healthy experience. The whole casting off sins and changing for teh better thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RecordProducer Posted September 19, 2006 Author Share Posted September 19, 2006 It is an odd and awful situation. As drastic as it sounds, you may have to give hubby the me or them talk. ...No way am I going to give him the me or them talk! The one who gives him that talk deserves to be out. HE has to realize himself that they are bad and either put them in place or ditch them. On the contrary, he has to see that it's THEM who are making him ditch ME for no reason, while I am nothing but nice. He has to see that they are purposefully trying to ruin our marriage. However, you also need to be prepared that blood is indeed thicker than water and I imagine it is a lot thicker with twins involved and coupled with the fact that you and hubby are relatively new and have had some serious arguments regarding your pregnancy. Nah... the pegnancy argument didn't leave any scars. I thanked my husband for discouraging me to have the baby. But you're right that they are trying to squeeze me out of his life. He has had two wives that came and went fast (one 14 months, the other one a couple years). They think I will be the next blade-runner that will pass through his life like before you blink. But his first wife was mentally ill and the second one is an alcoholic and drug user. That's why they are bothered with him being so good with the kids - because THEY may keep him. Whenever I am good or even just looking good, it reminds them that he must be in love with me. Plus he brought me all the way from Europe and I have no place to go so they know I would have to be really bad in order that he kicks me out. So they are trying to persuade him that I am bad. It is not a good place to be. It isn't. But one of the teams will definitely be in a place where it doesn't want to be. I'll make sure it's not MY team. And how does one skate in a front yard in September?Roller blading is what I meant, you silly! Link to post Share on other sites
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