turtle32 Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 My girlfriend dumped me about 2 weeks ago cause i didnt show her enough attention, I told i had seen my mistake and ask if we could try again and she said she didnt want anything right now. So i have not contacted her in about a week and i am dieing to call her. How long do i wait do i ever contact her? I am afraid if i dont she will think i have gave up and she isnt worth fighting for, i just dont know what i should do. I wonder if she misses me or wants to talk to me i guess not since i havent heard from her. Just wondering what you opinion was. Link to post Share on other sites
Princess112 Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 Do you really understand what you did wrong and are you willing to adjust because of it though? I suggest you contact her as soon as your heart tells you to. But don't play around. Relationships can hurt enough without the constant breaking up. The whole purpose of it is so that you can think and maybe change a little, not to simply go back together and set your problems aside. In any case, I wish you the best of luck Link to post Share on other sites
jacked17 Posted September 19, 2006 Share Posted September 19, 2006 how long were you guys together for? If you push her and try to convince her to take you back it's going to push her even further away. If she needs space give her space because if you don't it could cause more harm than good. You're doing well by not contacting her for a week just take it one day at a time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author turtle32 Posted September 19, 2006 Author Share Posted September 19, 2006 I just wish how she felt she said things like she liked me but didnt want anything right now and i asked her if i should wait or forget us she said it wouldnt be fair to say way, and she told my sister that she was afraid i would hurt her again. We never had a short word the whole 8 months we dated and she really liked me but i pushed her away and wouldnt get close i am so stupid i just try and tell myself now that she know i care so much you would think she would give me another chance. She said she was real busy and i was and we didnt ahve time which was only cause i made it thatw ay i could spend as much time as i wanted with her, but was stupid. im just afraid if i dont contact her she will move on and forget me i guess that is normal i also want to have a friend of mine and her try and talk to her but dont know fi that is good i just wish i knew one way or the other that if she dont ever want anything with me again then just tel me or if she does just need time i am willing to wait for her im just so confused in what to do. I have other girls i could go out with and have thought maybe i should and help me get over her but i only want her. Man this is hard why did i act so stupid? Link to post Share on other sites
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