pussy galore Posted September 20, 2006 Share Posted September 20, 2006 Hi all, Damm, what a year and half i've had... Here's the story, my gf and I were together for about 3 and half years on and off. I'm 28 and she's 23, our relationship was a very loving one, romance, trust, respect everythink. Basically I told my parents I was gay, they did not take it to well , thus I moved out and in with my with my then gf who lived with her parents and still does... things were fine, we had such a larf and I'm an old romantic, so I wrote love letters, sent her flowers etc... It was always aware that she was abit imature and very nieve. To be honest im not really sure what happended otherthan we went through a bad patch, we weren't really ready to be in a situation where by we were seeing each other eveyday... Anyway she ended up having an affair behind my back with someone I know and had worked with previsouly, I found txt msg's etc... I moved out!!!! The woman that she had the affiar with is 39, has four kids, 3 of which are around the same age as my ex. So for the last year and half, my whole world has been turned inside,as she would want to be with me and then her, but everytime she was her - this woman would treat her like ****, she'd be sleeping with her ex, told her that it was only abit of fun and that she didn't feel anythink for, just total crap all the way. She's even threatend her on a number of occassions, im telling you this women is crazy. I think in total they have only been together propley for about 6wks, its been off more times than off and every time she go's running back to her! Why? She tells me she's in love with, but says she will always love me and want to have kids with me eh!!!!! I've decided to just let her get with it, because she'll get hurt again, only now she hasn't got me to fall back on - I've washed my hands of her, i'm do old to be dealing with school girls crush's. I still love her dearly, but have no wish to have her in my life, but she still wants to be friends and I've said no, I know im doing the right thing, but it it still hurts.... I've told her I've moved on from all of that, I can't keep going back, I need to go forward, I've moved on and she still in the same situation she's been in for the last year and half and I think she hates me for it..... Im not the one stupid enough to believe that this relationship if you can call it that will ever work! What shall I do,shall I speak to her if I see her or just be happy that she was a part of my life, I really don't know what to do, at the age of 25 I meet my true love, soul m8 and best friend and now I have neither... Advise pls! :( Link to post Share on other sites
hopeto Posted September 27, 2006 Share Posted September 27, 2006 first of all you answered your own question.... you said that she was young and you were pretty much older.... first of all she has to soe he weats, break down she has to do all the wild things out of her system and all the things you have already done. if you love her then wait in the shadows..... make your self know ever so often so she sees what you are and what she is losing. sont be mean nor hateful..... just like I said in the shadows..... Link to post Share on other sites
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