What's going on? is he interested or not???

[really_confused]

Hi! Help! I am so confused at the moment...!

 

Well there is this guy (Jimmy) at work, I didn't have to work with him before, and when I first met him I don't think of him at all.

Only a month ago I have been moved to his department, since then I think he's a very sweet and a nice guy.

I don't know if he likes me or not though coz he's nice to everyone and I am getting mix signal from him.

I’ve court him staring at me a few times and when I saw him he’ll turn away.

I’ve noticed quite often he stands from a distant and he watches me with one hand round his waist and the other covering his mouth and stoking his chin. He speaks to me in a soft tone voice and he touched me in a playful way like softly pushes my back and punch my arm etc… to other people we seems like good friends.

But here’s the thing, he used to have his lunch with his friends and me in the kitchen but after a week he just went to another room and eat by himself?! You see sometime I go in the kitchen later then everyone else so he’s gone before I get there, when he finish his lunch he has to walk past us to get back to work…. But he’ll have his head down and pretend he didn’t see me…? It’s so obvious that a few people mention that he used to have his lunch with them until I turned up and he’s changed a bit?!!

 

Before I know him/ work together with him he used to say hi, morning etc all the time (he does it to everyone) and now he pretend he can’t see me anymore only when we’re alone he’ll smile and talk to me but we’re hardly alone. We used to talk all the time and have a giggle but now not sure what’s going on???!!!

 

Help!

 

Really_confused x

[obsession]

I am sorry, I can't help you, but I just want to add that I could totally relate to your story, right down to the details. I might as well have written it a year or two ago myself, so good luck.

 

Are you fresh out of college? What state are you from?