Carl Posted March 2, 2002 Share Posted March 2, 2002 After swimming in the public indoor pool, I took a shower. When I finished showering, I found to my surprise a girl from my school in the locker room. There I was standing in front of her totally naked and wet. When I asked her what she was doing in the boy's locker room, she explained that she was watching her 5 year old nephew. She said she didn't feel comfortable letting him go into the boys' locker room to change by himself and he was considered to old to be in the girls' locker room. As I told her she shouldn't be in the boys' locker room she just seemed to stare at my genitals. When I told her to stop staring, she apologized and said she just had never seen a guy her age without cloth on. I told her that likewise, I never had a girl see me naked. I was at first annoyed at her, but she was kind of cute. I then figured she was only doing what she felt was best for her nephew. There are a lot of creeps in this world and you can't be too careful. My question is should I tell my girlfriend about what happened? I've always been truthful to her. She probably would want me to file a complaint about her and I wouldn't want to get her in trouble. Link to post Share on other sites
Tracy S. Posted March 2, 2002 Share Posted March 2, 2002 She sounds like a very responsible girl (and cute too). Most baby sitters would just let a 5 year old go through the locker room on his own. Who knows what can happen these days. You have to commend her for staying with him. As far as her looking you over, she's probably only curious. It's only natural to be curious at seeing the opposite sex. Nothing wrong with that. There's no need telling your girlfriend of this. Though nothing wrong happened but she may not see it that way. After swimming in the public indoor pool, I took a shower. When I finished showering, I found to my surprise a girl from my school in the locker room. There I was standing in front of her totally naked and wet. When I asked her what she was doing in the boy's locker room, she explained that she was watching her 5 year old nephew. She said she didn't feel comfortable letting him go into the boys' locker room to change by himself and he was considered to old to be in the girls' locker room. As I told her she shouldn't be in the boys' locker room she just seemed to stare at my genitals. When I told her to stop staring, she apologized and said she just had never seen a guy her age without cloth on. I told her that likewise, I never had a girl see me naked. I was at first annoyed at her, but she was kind of cute. I then figured she was only doing what she felt was best for her nephew. There are a lot of creeps in this world and you can't be too careful. My question is should I tell my girlfriend about what happened? I've always been truthful to her. She probably would want me to file a complaint about her and I wouldn't want to get her in trouble. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 2, 2002 Share Posted March 2, 2002 Hey, bub, let me genitellya. Learn to live your life a little bit without your girlfriend's influence. You don't have to tell her every time you go to the bathroom. The incident was unfortunate, nobody was hurt, no harm done, and no gossip will ensue, hopefully. Just forget it. Learn in life to cut people some slack. It was wrong for this girl to stare at your Freddie but feel sorry she's never seen an adult penis before and be happy you were her first. Don't tell anybody about this. Learn now there are things that happen in life that you just keep your mouth shut about and you'll have a lot happier life. The only circumstance in which you should tell your gal about this is if you feel rumors of this incident may get around. But because this strange girl doesn't have your name, she'll only be able to describe your penis to her friends and male genitalia mostly all look similar, just in different ways (Yogi Berra). Keep quiet. Link to post Share on other sites
velvet Posted March 2, 2002 Share Posted March 2, 2002 The babysitter should have had the boy shower in the ladies room with his shorts on. Im sure there were stalls to prevent darting eyes. There is no reason to tell your wife about her. If you feel she has an open mind and can find it humours that this girl saw you with out your cloths than its fine to have a laugh at it. You should know what you can talk to your g/f about what not to. Hey, bub, let me genitellya. Learn to live your life a little bit without your girlfriend's influence. You don't have to tell her every time you go to the bathroom. The incident was unfortunate, nobody was hurt, no harm done, and no gossip will ensue, hopefully. Just forget it. Learn in life to cut people some slack. It was wrong for this girl to stare at your Freddie but feel sorry she's never seen an adult penis before and be happy you were her first. Don't tell anybody about this. Learn now there are things that happen in life that you just keep your mouth shut about and you'll have a lot happier life. The only circumstance in which you should tell your gal about this is if you feel rumors of this incident may get around. But because this strange girl doesn't have your name, she'll only be able to describe your penis to her friends and male genitalia mostly all look similar, just in different ways (Yogi Berra). Keep quiet. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Mojo Posted March 3, 2002 Share Posted March 3, 2002 hi carl, nothing wrong here happened. you did not deceive your girlfriend, you did not do anything that remotely resembles being dishonest or unfaithful. even though you are in a relationship, i can guarantee that as long as the blood is still flowing through your veins normally, you will find other chicks attractive. there is nothing wrong with that. in fact, i'd think there was something wrong if the only girl you found attractive was your girlfriend. i think she was doing the right thing by looking out for her nephew. i'm sure she wasn't comfortable being there, but she was being responsible and it just so happened she saw you there...starkers. i too, do not like to let my 7 year old cousin go to public toilets alone. as a girl, i can tell you that i have been subject to male nudity in public places when i have least expected it, but hey...that's life. there is no need to tell your girlfriend about what happened. she'd probably overreact and let's face it - it really is no big deal. best wishes After swimming in the public indoor pool, I took a shower. When I finished showering, I found to my surprise a girl from my school in the locker room. There I was standing in front of her totally naked and wet. When I asked her what she was doing in the boy's locker room, she explained that she was watching her 5 year old nephew. She said she didn't feel comfortable letting him go into the boys' locker room to change by himself and he was considered to old to be in the girls' locker room. As I told her she shouldn't be in the boys' locker room she just seemed to stare at my genitals. When I told her to stop staring, she apologized and said she just had never seen a guy her age without cloth on. I told her that likewise, I never had a girl see me naked. I was at first annoyed at her, but she was kind of cute. I then figured she was only doing what she felt was best for her nephew. There are a lot of creeps in this world and you can't be too careful. My question is should I tell my girlfriend about what happened? I've always been truthful to her. She probably would want me to file a complaint about her and I wouldn't want to get her in trouble. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 3, 2002 Share Posted March 3, 2002 YOU WROTE: "...let's face it, it really is no big deal." So how do you know, did you see it too? How could you say that about a guy's you know what? That's terrible. If a lady said mine was no big deal, not only would I be highly insulted but I'd think she hadn't seen very many of them!!! I can't believe you wrote that!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Mojo Posted March 3, 2002 Share Posted March 3, 2002 ahhh, tony, you really know how to make a person laugh. i'll steer well clear of that comment. a little too much innuendo in it for me. my apologies to carl. i'm sure he has very big feet, being a swimmer and all. *wink wink* YOU WROTE: "...let's face it, it really is no big deal." So how do you know, did you see it too? How could you say that about a guy's you know what? That's terrible. If a lady said mine was no big deal, not only would I be highly insulted but I'd think she hadn't seen very many of them!!! I can't believe you wrote that!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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