Some Q's for the women on here about confidence.

[Ross_K]

KMT- That is the third time you have done this tonight.

 

Stop advertising on other peoples threads!!!

 

Ross- instead of spending your time on here asking why women aren't attracted to you, why don't you go out in to the real world and give women a reason to be attracted to you!

 

Like what?

[Ross_K]

Well, here's something that you can do immediately and there can be no excuses as you have LOTS of time on the computer.

 

This is not the first time you post asking what a particular word means.

 

Dictionary.com

 

Can't be bothered, it's just more easier to ask.

[dgiirl]

Can't be bothered, it's just more easier to ask.

 

You know Ross, that is extremely rude. Not only do you ask for advice, but you also want to be just given the answer. It's too hard for you to look up a word in a dictionary, and yet you expect other's to do the work for you? That's so rude and so uncool. No wonder your life is the way it is. You _made_ it that way.

[Ross_K]

You know Ross, that is extremely rude. Not only do you ask for advice, but you also want to be just given the answer. It's too hard for you to look up a word in a dictionary, and yet you expect other's to do the work for you? That's so rude and so uncool. No wonder your life is the way it is. You _made_ it that way.

 

Oh be quiet, it wasn't rude at all, I just gave her the answer for why I didn't go and look it up in a dictionary, plus I never really thought about looking it up either. I mean why bother if all you have to do is ask the person, they're going to know since they used the word.

 

And I don't expect anyone to do any work for me, wtf? Like I said, all they have to do is type what the word means, it's not like they'd have to look it up themselves in an online dictionary.

[burning 4 revenge]

It's rather ironic that the word in question is apathetic

[Ross_K]

So apathetic means that you can't be bothered? Heh

[dgiirl]

It's very rude. If you wanted to know what it meant, it would have taken you LESS time to actually google the word yourself, than to ask her, only to have her respond. Sometimes, your responses to people are so arrogant, selfish and uncourteous it's unbelievable. You dont go around telling people, I'm too lazy to look something up so you tell me. If you cannot help yourself, why do you expect others to help you?

[Ross_K]

It's very rude. If you wanted to know what it meant, it would have taken you LESS time to actually google the word yourself, than to ask her, only to have her respond. Sometimes, your responses to people are so arrogant, selfish and uncourteous it's unbelievable. You dont go around telling people, I'm too lazy to look something up so you tell me. If you cannot help yourself, why do you expect others to help you?

 

Listen, I told you I never thought of going to a dictionary or google to look up the word, I just automatically asked without thinking.

[lindya]

Well, just to show how much my pictures can vary, here's a couple of handsome ones, I don't want to leave you with a bad taste in your mouth do I?

 

 

Ross - many, many people read this board. Who's to say some of the kids in your neighbourhood that you've been getting a hard time from aren't among them? Posting pictures of yourself is just asking for trouble, it really is.

 

I recommend you start employing a bit of anonymity. If you contact the mods I'm sure they'd remove links to the pictures you've posted. It's up to you, of course, but I just think it's very unwise to be giving out these personal details on a public site that you're spilling your guts out on. I can never get why people do it.

[dgiirl]

Listen, I told you I never thought of going to a dictionary or google to look up the word, I just automatically asked without thinking.

 

That might be the case, but why the remark? You could have said something much nicer than what you did.

[Ross_K]

Ross - many, many people read this board. Who's to say some of the kids in your neighbourhood that you've been getting a hard time from aren't among them? Posting pictures of yourself is just asking for trouble, it really is.

 

I recommend you start employing a bit of anonymity. If you contact the mods I'm sure they'd remove links to the pictures you've posted. It's up to you, of course, but I just think it's very unwise to be giving out these personal details on a public site that you're spilling your guts out on. I can never get why people do it.

 

Nah, I had got a hard time from them way before I got the net, besides, this isn't the kind of site those sort of people would go on anyway. And like I've said, I may not even look that much like how I do on the photo's I've shown, I dunno. And it's not like I'm giving out my address or anything.

[Ross_K]

That might be the case, but why the remark? You could have said something much nicer than what you did.

 

I didn't think there was anything wrong with my remark, anyway she didn't really come across as being that nice telling me I've got loads of time on the computer, saying that it's not the first time I've posted asking what a particular word means and telling me to use a dictionary.

 

When I read it I was like 'Whateveeeer '

[Green]

KMT is the Stud muffin:laugh:

Quitintrovertgirl your my cheerleader thanks for lifting my spirits

[Ariadne]

Hey,

 

I think Ariadne; maybe ross is a pimp and acting like this is how he gets the ladies to fall for him and his smooth avatar.

 

I think so.

 

It seems like quietintrovergirl and Ailec have a crush on him already .

 

Go Ross!

 

I think he'd have the same response in real life if he let the girls get to know him. But for that he'd have to be with girls somehow, or at least get to know girls online that lived nearby.

 

Ariadne

[Slickkk]

I AM THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PROVE ME WRONG, EVERYONE

 

Ok, now this has got mizillions of replies - I had to make my post standout somehow, not forgetting that statement is true...regardless

 

To a man, looks are almost the primary force that creates attraction. Personality second. However, it seems like it is the other way around with women. Personality first, and looks second. How do I know this?

 

I know many not so good looking men that attract good-looking women. I have many female friends that assert a confident alpha male is the type of man they want. Women are naturally (through years of being on this planet) attracted to men who have confidence and show masculine traits...

 

Put it this way. How many times have you seen an avergae looking guy with an attractive woman? compare that to how many times you see the opposite...see what I mean

 

Having said that a man must still know how to look after himself, and have something going for him. He cannot be revolting and pull models...

[Island Girl]

Well, well. I had thought that might illicit a repsonse that would be more telling of your perspective since you seem to dance around direct questions and find excuses to dismiss any suggestions that would possibly change your circumstance. Suggestions, by the way, you asked for.

 

Read below and you should see what I am talking about.

 

why I didn't go and look it up in a dictionary, plus I never really thought about looking it up either. I mean why bother if all you have to do is ask the person, they're going to know since they used the word.

 

Why bother to go and find out what it means yourself? Hmmmm.

 

I guess I can't explain what drives people to continue learning to someone who clearly doesn't have that attribute.

 

< attribute: to consider as a quality or characteristic of the person >

 

I don't expect anyone to do any work for me, wtf?

 

Yes you do. The very next sentence you wrote is:

 

all they have to do is type what the word means

 

You are requesting they type it out for you --- isn't that doing the work for you? It is easier for them to type it out than it is for you to type it in to Dictionary.com and read it yourself? Nooooo, it is easier for you.

 

Perhaps all of this --

 

1. the no social life that you complain about

 

2. not having a girlfriend

 

3. not being active outside of your home

 

This particular example illustrates this all stems from the fact that you are lazy - wanting change but not willing to put in the effort to make anything any different.

 

< lazy: averse or disinclined to work, activity, or exertion >

[quietintrovertgirl]

Ariadne,

Ross is my little bro and i'm trying to push him into the real world.

[dgiirl]

Amen Island Girl. Everyone has a pay off. And if you look at why Ross is still in this situation after _2 years_, you wonder what's his payoff. What is he getting from his current situation that keeps him there? And in Ross' case why should he change? He's the center of attention. He get's people's sympathy, and people try to help him. But once people get tired of offering advice with no results or effort from him, they start to call his bluff, and all of a sudden they are "mean" to him and he returns with nasty arrogant remarks in his "defense". Ross does not want help. He just wants attention. And once one set of people stop giving him attention, he'll move onto the next sap who will give him attention, and onto the next and next. And as long as he doesnt solve his problems, he can continue to get attention. That's his payoff. And that's why he wont make any real effort to fix his life.

[Island Girl]

Exactly dgiirl -

 

And as I so often find here on LS -- Your posts are so very like-minded!

 

Accolades and Applause -- Accolades and Applause -- the crowd goes wild

 

hee hee hee

[quietintrovertgirl]

dgiirl,

 

High five!I agree with everything you have to say about my little bro.

[Ariadne]

Hey Ross,

 

Well, just to show how much my pictures can vary, here's a couple of handsome ones

 

 

I can even see the depth in your eyes. It's very unusual.

 

Btw, have you tried having a drink or two? Go to a pub or a place like that?

 

Having a couple drinks can cure the social anxiety you have well.

 

Ariadne

[Ariadne]

Hi,

 

Ariadne, Ross is my little bro and i'm trying to push him into the real world.

 

Oh, I thought you were in love with him for a moment there

 

Ariadne

[Ross_K]

Hey,

 

I think Ariadne; maybe ross is a pimp and acting like this is how he gets the ladies to fall for him and his smooth avatar.

 

I think so.

 

It seems like quietintrovergirl and Ailec have a crush on him already .

 

Go Ross!

 

I think he'd have the same response in real life if he let the girls get to know him. But for that he'd have to be with girls somehow, or at least get to know girls online that lived nearby.

 

Ariadne

 

I doubt it Ariadne, because girls seem to think I'm ugly offline.

[Ross_K]

I AM THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PROVE ME WRONG, EVERYONE

 

Ok, now this has got mizillions of replies - I had to make my post standout somehow, not forgetting that statement is true...regardless

 

To a man, looks are almost the primary force that creates attraction. Personality second. However, it seems like it is the other way around with women. Personality first, and looks second. How do I know this?

 

I know many not so good looking men that attract good-looking women. I have many female friends that assert a confident alpha male is the type of man they want. Women are naturally (through years of being on this planet) attracted to men who have confidence and show masculine traits...

 

Put it this way. How many times have you seen an avergae looking guy with an attractive woman? compare that to how many times you see the opposite...see what I mean

 

Having said that a man must still know how to look after himself, and have something going for him. He cannot be revolting and pull models...

 

That's totally true, but it seems the guy has to be confident as well.

[Ross_K]

Well, well. I had thought that might illicit a repsonse that would be more telling of your perspective since you seem to dance around direct questions and find excuses to dismiss any suggestions that would possibly change your circumstance. Suggestions, by the way, you asked for.

 

Read below and you should see what I am talking about.

 

 

 

Why bother to go and find out what it means yourself? Hmmmm.

 

I guess I can't explain what drives people to continue learning to someone who clearly doesn't have that attribute.

 

< attribute: to consider as a quality or characteristic of the person >

 

...okay

 

 

Yes you do. The very next sentence you wrote is:

 

 

 

You are requesting they type it out for you --- isn't that doing the work for you? It is easier for them to type it out than it is for you to type it in to Dictionary.com and read it yourself? Nooooo, it is easier for you.

 

Um, typing out an explanation isn't any work at all, and they don't have to if they don't want to.

 

Perhaps all of this --

 

1. the no social life that you complain about

 

2. not having a girlfriend

 

3. not being active outside of your home

 

This particular example illustrates this all stems from the fact that you are lazy - wanting change but not willing to put in the effort to make anything any different.

 

< lazy: averse or disinclined to work, activity, or exertion >

 

Yes, I do lack motivation and will power, but I am willing to put the effort in to make things different, perhaps if you would've read the topic thoroughly you would have realised this.