sweetie271 Posted September 26, 2006 Share Posted September 26, 2006 How can you tell if a guy really likes you, and not just after one thing? Link to post Share on other sites
hentajus Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 if he's the advancer type he will clearly show you... but if he's the shy type (like me) than i surely know that stuff:) for example: If he is shy you will probably see him in a lot of random places , he's going to look at you and BANG after a few moments hes looking the other way... and the dead giveaway if a shy guy likes you is: When he talks to you he's going to blush red:) Link to post Share on other sites
remedylane Posted October 15, 2006 Share Posted October 15, 2006 if he's the advancer type he will clearly show you... but if he's the shy type (like me) than i surely know that stuff:) for example: If he is shy you will probably see him in a lot of random places , he's going to look at you and BANG after a few moments hes looking the other way... and the dead giveaway if a shy guy likes you is: When he talks to you he's going to blush red:) I've never heard of the blushing red part. I know that I get shy around girls I like and talk to, but I've never noticed my face getting red or anything. Maybe I should analyze myself to see if I ever do. Link to post Share on other sites
everlong Posted October 15, 2006 Share Posted October 15, 2006 uhmmmm....when you blush, your face gets hot! you get nervous. no overthinking needed. Link to post Share on other sites
remedylane Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 so sweetie, how you noticed any guys acting like what was said in this thread? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 there is one other kinda guy that u have left out - the shyadvancer! lol that's me i think. i sometimes blush over the silliest things - like when some surprises me, sneaks up from behind, hugs me and tells me how much they appreciate me. and i do the opposite when someone compliments me on an achivement [like writing an essay] - i get embarassed! lol Link to post Share on other sites
tedrack Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 How can you tell if a guy really likes you, and not just after one thing? Are you talking before or after you are dating? Signs a guy really likes you: he enjoys spending time with you and talking, even if he isn't getting anything physical out of it. He likes your company. He should also be making an effort to get to you. what i mean is you shouldn't be the one who's always coming after him. if he likes you he will want to see you and talk to you Link to post Share on other sites
laguy10 Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 Are you talking before or after you are dating? Signs a guy really likes you: he enjoys spending time with you and talking, even if he isn't getting anything physical out of it. He likes your company. He should also be making an effort to get to you. what i mean is you shouldn't be the one who's always coming after him. if he likes you he will want to see you and talk to you I agree with Ted. The signs probably vary, based upon the age-group you're referring to, but there are some universal things that you can use to determine this. I think that men and women are very similar in this area - if you like a guy, what do you do? Probably try to be around him a lot, get to know a lot about him, laugh at his jokes, etc. When a guy likes a girl, it's almost the same thing....depending upon his maturity, he will either be shy (which has already been discussed) or he will be more direct. If a guy is always making you laugh, is around the places you're at a lot, makes a lot of eye contact with you, always asks about how you're doing, etc. I would say that it's probably a pretty good bet he's interested. Now, if you want to know how to take this further, read the post about picking up people in public LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 If he genuinely likes being around you but still flirts and teases you. (If he doesn't flirt he could see you as just a friend). Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 How can you tell if a guy really likes you, and not just after one thing? if he gets all goofy and starts doing everything you want... Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Every man is after one thing. Even the "nice guys" who don't have a clue how to get there. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted October 31, 2006 Share Posted October 31, 2006 Look for the bulge in his pants Link to post Share on other sites
clatan Posted November 6, 2006 Share Posted November 6, 2006 It depends on what you mean by really like you. If you mean if he's falling for you, then here's a good indicator... check out his eyes. Look at his pupils. Compare how big his pupils are when looking at and talking to you to how they look when he's not looking at you. If his pupils are dialated, that is a pretty sure sign he's really into you. Like others said, if he's the shy type then he kind of avoids staring straight into your eyes. That can also be a sign if you look at him and his eyes kind of dance around you and then he nervously looks down or something, that's normally a sign that he's into you, especially if he also looks a little red in the face or neck. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted November 6, 2006 Share Posted November 6, 2006 Look at his pupils. Compare how big his pupils are when looking at and talking to you to how they look when he's not looking at you. If his pupils are dialated, that is a pretty sure sign he's really into you. Does that pupil thing really work? I don't want to be like "hold still I need to see something." I can never tell. Link to post Share on other sites
Antheia Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 That pupil thing is pretty hard to read. Say a guys pupils are moderatly big when talking to you. When he looks away you can't even exactly see them. How do you know if they are really bigger or smaller? It is VERY hard to tell in my opinion. Also there are other factors that can interfere with this, sunlight, tiredness, heroin.. Shy people's pupils tend to be big all the time. That's because they get bigger when you are nervous and shy people tend to be nervous in social situations full stop - no matter who they are talking to. Same with blushing. I just go by gut feeling. Usually guy that likes me will check me out repeadetly (keep looking me up and down). He will also try to be around me more and just generally pay me lots of attention - even at the expense of ignoring other people. Also there is this look that guy gives you, kind of lowers his eyelids and looks at you through his eyelashes, I have learned to recognize this look well. But those can all be the signs that he is after one thing only too. Well, in my experience they are ALL after one thing initially, they only start to really like you when they get to know you better. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 How can you tell if a guy really likes you, and not just after one thing? One sure sign! He is wearing an new line of jeans that boasts a 6 inch extruding crotch area and you find out that nobody makes this style of clothing. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 He is wearing an new line of jeans that boasts a 6 inch extruding crotch area and you find out that nobody makes this style of clothing. you mean "pitching a tent"?? Link to post Share on other sites
Antheia Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 One sure sign! He is wearing an new line of jeans that boasts a 6 inch extruding crotch area and you find out that nobody makes this style of clothing. But how do you tell if he is wearing those wide cargo pants? Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 Usually guy that likes me will check me out repeadetly (keep looking me up and down). He will also try to be around me more and just generally pay me lots of attention - even at the expense of ignoring other people. Yeah, everything you said. Another one if he asks you about your husband or bf. And then after you are bfs, if he does things for you like repair stuff, buy you things, do special things for you. (See Antheia, I'm giving advice, although the op must be gone by now) Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 and not just after one thing? Damn.. there is more than one thing ??? Link to post Share on other sites
Cronus Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 If he asks for your number, does stuff for you, if he is nervous around you..... However, you want the guy that will ask for your number (confidence) and is a fun guy to be around. Link to post Share on other sites
Moai Posted November 8, 2006 Share Posted November 8, 2006 A guy really likes you if he seeks out your company whether you are sleeping with him or not. Any guy will be sweet, nice, or whatever if you are giving it up, but once he is tired of it (and that is inevitiable), he will spilt for seomthing else. But, if he actually likes YOU, he will stick around no matter what. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted November 9, 2006 Share Posted November 9, 2006 if he is nervous around you..... Does vomiting in her lap count as being nervous? Link to post Share on other sites
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