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Does hogging count as cheating?


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First of all, i to am pretty new to these forums. But can any of you elders tell me what hogging is? Also i kinda get the whole concept of the meaning of troll, i think.... Its like a person messing with ppl on these boards right? A j*ck *ss in other words?

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So whats the difference between that, and spotting a fat girl or not so attractive girl in a nightclub and thinking 'I'll go and chat her up because I'll probably have a chance with her, whereas if I went to an attractive girl there's no way she'd want me'

 

Everyone does this to some extent, I mean, the majority of people don't purposley target people that're out of their league, do they?

 

These guys may be losers when it comes to getting women. And women who're fat, not so attractive, have low self esteem ect are the only women they can get.

 

I think the difference can be that the hogger misleads the fat/ugly/low self esteem to think that they are really interested in them, without leading on that they are preying on them for sex only and taking advantage of their low self esteem. They feel absolutely no feelings towards the person yet lead them to believe that they do so that they will sleep with them. This is wrong for all situations, even if a guy meets a girl at a bar or anywhere else. The difference at a bar is that the girl is wanting to get picked up and it is a spoken or unspoken acknowledgement that the girl too wants to be picked up for sex with no strings.

 

The fat or ugly girl need not be at a bar. She can be picked up during the day doing whatever and the hogger will mislead them to think that they think they are beautiful or they like them and have feelings, and will dupe them into having sex. That's the difference. That is low life and scum behavior, and to include it in a relationship because it doesn't count is unacceptable.

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