How to talk dirty?

[SHANNON]

Ok here it goes.... First off let me say that

 

I am rather shy person. My boyfriend and I have

 

a great sex life. Lately it just seems to be

 

getting more interesting every time we have

 

sex. We met over the internet, when we first met

 

we would e-mail each other cute little

 

"innocent" kinda e-mails back and forth.(these were easy for me to send) But

 

now he has gotten alot bolder which I don't

 

mind reading from him. But he would like for me

 

to send some like that back. I have an

 

imagination but to put it to words I just

 

don't know how to. He doesn't cuss or anything

 

so I wouldn't be able to use those kind of

 

words. I really would like to send him some

 

"dirty e-mails but every time I got to I sit

 

there and go blank. I don't know what to say or

 

how to say it. It always sounds weird. Please

 

if anyone has any advice on how I can get over

 

this "shy writer's block" please tell me.

 

Thanks!!!

[simone]

hey, don't feel bad, i used to be like you. the whole thing is, don't be shy. he's your boyfriend, he won't laugh at you. just tell him what you want to do to him. it would probably be easier to get yourself in the mood, like watching a dirty movie or reading a dirty book, or thinking dirty thoughts, so that you want him so bad that you can taste it. and when you do, get online and tell him what's on your mind. start with, "if you were here with me right now, i'd..." whatever it is, he'll appreciate it because you're thinking about him, and the bonus is that you're thinking about him sexually.

[simone]

hey, don't feel bad, i used to be like you. the whole thing is, don't be shy. he's your boyfriend, he won't laugh at you. just tell him what you want to do to him. it would probably be easier to get yourself in the mood, like watching a dirty movie or reading a dirty book, or thinking dirty thoughts, so that you want him so bad that you can taste it. and when you do, get online and tell him what's on your mind. start with, "if you were here with me right now, i'd..." whatever it is, he'll appreciate it because you're thinking about him, and the bonus is that you're thinking about him sexually.

[SHANNON]

 

Thank you simone. Ya know I did send him one I told him it was dream and that way it was kinda easier for me to write cuz it kinda sounded like being in a "Third Party" way. And yes he did like it so now I guess from now on I will think of it as a dream