Guest Posted September 26, 2006 Share Posted September 26, 2006 basically i was dating this girl for about 16 months. i was so in love with her abut we did have some fights but it was always over something really stupid and we both know that. But being a young age im 20 shes 18 we decided to take a break. About 2 days in our break there was a party at one of both of our friends houses. So i went and she brought some other guy was all over him in front of me. I have never felt anything like that in my life. But i was still talking to her because i still loved her it wasnt my idea to go on the break she just told me she wanted more time for friends. Then about 2 days after that one of our friends called me up and tells me that she had sex with this guy So im like what the hell we have only been on break for 4 days. I call her up and she denies sleeping with him but eventually she admits to it. Now its been about a month and she wants to get back with me. But im at the point where i was starting to feel ok again 'not thinking about her every second of the day'. but i still decided to hang out with her again. I told her i wouldnt even give her a chance unless she stopped talking to the guy she hooked up with which she agreed to do. But everytime i see her all i can think about is that night i saw her all over some other guy looking right through me like i wasnt there. I just dont know what to do it hurts for me to say goodbye but it hurts for me to be with her. even though we were on break it still felt like cheating. Any advice would be great thanks for reading Link to post Share on other sites
trunk Posted September 27, 2006 Share Posted September 27, 2006 Well this is my opinion. It sounds like she's not too concerned about doing things that would hurt you - granted she may be doing it out of some sort of defense mechanism but nevertheless... My friend you are 20 years old - If I could go back to the me at 20 I'd say have fun, meet girls, but never compromise your own self-honor. Don't let people treat you like dirt. Walk away, feel the pain, come back stronger, move on and find someone else. The number of friends who I have given this advice to(and had given back to me) are many. Walk a path where you empower yourself and you'll look back and be glad you did. Link to post Share on other sites
michelangelo Posted September 27, 2006 Share Posted September 27, 2006 Count yourself lucky to have such a drama queen out of your life. Lovesick cow it for a short time, then get back on the horse and ride the range. Link to post Share on other sites
Moai Posted September 27, 2006 Share Posted September 27, 2006 Find someone better. The next time shegets mad she'll do it again. Beyond that, she knows that what she was doing was hurting you and did it ON PURPOSE. She is not a nice person. It may be that she staged the fight just so she could go "on a break" and sleep with that guy, and then take you back. The scenario really doesn't matter, though. There are too many wonderful women on the planet to worry about her. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted September 27, 2006 Share Posted September 27, 2006 Can you say dis-respect? Why would you want to be with this women? I would seriously question her love for you. You don't need or want someone who not only partied with a guy right in front of you but she also slept with him. Time to find a gal that really cares for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 27, 2006 Share Posted September 27, 2006 thanks a lot you guys really did help i know what i need to do. Link to post Share on other sites
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