lovestruck234 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Last time I saw mine was over two months ago. Whaaaaaaat? I would go crazy if that was me...!!! I see mine every day. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Eh. Just curious!! How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend? I see mine about 2-4 times a week. Anywhere from 5-7 days out of the week, depending on our schedules. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Whaaaaaaat? I would go crazy if that was me...!!! I see mine every day. Trust me I already have, that's why she is my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend? Nearly every day. Link to post Share on other sites
lovestruck234 Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 Trust me I already have, that's why she is my ex. I was going to say!!! Geez, what kind of relationship is that??? I can't go one day without seeing him, and especially can't go one day without sex!! Man, I wouldn't have survived it! Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 When I was dating my first BF at first we would see each other once a week since he was using me for sex. Then our relationship became more serious (two years later) and we started seeing each other every day. We lived about a mile away from each other. With my ex-husband, when we dated we saw each other every day. My second husband and I were in a long-distance relationship so things were different. Now we see each other every day. Link to post Share on other sites
riobikini Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 Everyday. And all his things are gradually ending up at my house. (Smile) -Rio Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 Everyday. once or twice per wk is good for me... And all his things are gradually ending up at my house. once he gets them all moved into your place it won't be long before they are all thrown out the window Link to post Share on other sites
riobikini Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 Never been guilty of that, Alpha. Never temperamental or prone to fighting. I like things nice and quiet and calm. When it starts getting dramatic I leave the picture. In a very lady-like manner. The way my southern roots have brought me up. (Smile) -Rio Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted October 12, 2006 Share Posted October 12, 2006 once he gets them all moved into your place it won't be long before they are all thrown out the window Hahah! Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend? Well, he is my fwb, but you can say boyfriend. I see him every day (with some exceptions). In fact, I'm heading there now Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend? Well, he is my fwb, but you can say boyfriend. I see him every day (with some exceptions). In fact, I'm heading there now Ariadne Sounds like a BF to me. What seperates him from being only your FWB if you see him everyday? I'm just curious. The only answer I can think of is if you guys are allowed to see other people, but what time do you have to do that if u see eachother that regularly? Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hi, Sounds like a BF to me. What seperates him from being only your FWB if you see him everyday? I'm just curious. Oh, the fact that I don't love him I know, it's sad. I feel bad about it at times, because he is so attentive to me and thinks I'm the coolest, smartest, most beautiful, sweetest so it's tough not to feel bad at the situation. Sigh! But I try and be nice to him as much as I can (meaning, doing things for him, helping him out, etc) The only answer I can think of is if you guys are allowed to see other people, but what time do you have to do that if u see eachother that regularly? Well, he started seeing someone else at some point and I left him alone for about a month or so, but he broke up with her and is only seeing me now. I tell him that he can see other people and I won't have a problem with that, and that if he wants me back I'll be there (if I'm still available). So, that's kind of how things are, Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hi, Sounds like a BF to me. What seperates him from being only your FWB if you see him everyday? I'm just curious. Oh, the fact that I don't love him I know, it's sad. I feel bad about it at times, because he is so attentive to me and thinks I'm the coolest, smartest, most beautiful, sweetest so it's tough not to feel bad at the situation. Sigh! But I try and be nice to him as much as I can (meaning, doing things for him, helping him out, etc) The only answer I can think of is if you guys are allowed to see other people, but what time do you have to do that if u see eachother that regularly? Well, he started seeing someone else at some point and I left him alone for about a month or so, but he broke up with her and is only seeing me now. I tell him that he can see other people and I won't have a problem with that, and that if he wants me back I'll be there (if I'm still available). So, that's kind of how things are, Ariadne He's your BF and you don't even know it! hahaha! Ariadne's gotta booooyfriend! Just kidding. I hope your roles don't reverse. You sound happy so Kudos! I got caught up in a similar situation before. I didn't care much about him (romantically/exclusively) then WHAM! Be careful! We don't want you posting about you wanting ur FWB to settle down. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hey, He's your BF and you don't even know it! hahaha! Ariadne's gotta booooyfriend! Just kidding. Hahaha I hope your roles don't reverse. You sound happy so Kudos! I got caught up in a similar situation before. I didn't care much about him (romantically/exclusively) then WHAM! Be careful! We don't want you posting about you wanting ur FWB to settle down. Eek, you are right. I didn't think of that. But I'm in love with Denver guy so I doubt it, but could be. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hey, He's your BF and you don't even know it! hahaha! Ariadne's gotta booooyfriend! Just kidding. Hahaha I hope your roles don't reverse. You sound happy so Kudos! I got caught up in a similar situation before. I didn't care much about him (romantically/exclusively) then WHAM! Be careful! We don't want you posting about you wanting ur FWB to settle down. Eek, you are right. I didn't think of that. But I'm in love with Denver guy so I doubt it, but could be. Ariadne Oh well then no, that's a different scenario. You're playing safe, eh? Smart Cookie! Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hey, Oh well then no, that's a different scenario. You're playing safe, eh? Smart Cookie! Well, thing is I've been playing it safe for six months already... and in the mean time Denver guy (the guy I love) is engaged to someone else. So, after a couple years of this you could even say I'm married and don't know it... But that would be scary, if I fell for him and he didn't want me at all. He seems to like me though, but think of me long term that would be another story. What happened with your fwb? Did you end up with him? Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hey, Oh well then no, that's a different scenario. You're playing safe, eh? Smart Cookie! Well, thing is I've been playing it safe for six months already... and in the mean time Denver guy (the guy I love) is engaged to someone else. So, after a couple years of this you could even say I'm married and don't know it... But that would be scary, if I fell for him and he didn't want me at all. He seems to like me though, but think of me long term that would be another story. What happened with your fwb? Did you end up with him? Ariadne Thank GOD no! And I say this only now. I suffered over him for a long time. I'm sure there will be a day where you say the same about Denver dude! Believe me. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hey, Thank GOD no! And I say this only now. I suffered over him for a long time. How long were you with him? And how did you realize you were in love with him? I'm sure there will be a day where you say the same about Denver dude! Believe me. Well, who knows. Maybe. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hey, Thank GOD no! And I say this only now. I suffered over him for a long time. How long were you with him? And how did you realize you were in love with him? I'm sure there will be a day where you say the same about Denver dude! Believe me. Well, who knows. Maybe. Ariadne I was with him for three years off and on and pining after him for about another three. It's kinda a long story, but to make it short.. we met and I wasn't that interested, physically yes, but wasn't really ready to be serious with anyone at the time. He lived in another state and left 2 mos after we met. Called me daily while he was there, I wasn't that interested so I screened most of his calls and took them when I wanted. He came back to visit 2 mos after that (said he couldn't stay away, blah blah blah) stayed a while, we dated. Went back home, I find out he has a girlfriend! He still wouldn't leave me alone, tried to leave her. She called me, threatened me blah blah, he came back for good (supposedly). We stayed together saw eachother everyday. But to my dismay, he was still my FWB as I stated in the beginning. That wasn't working much for me, I loved him a lot but never told him. He moved to another state (again), I stopped taking his calls. We never spoke again, I was miserable for about three years after. This is a chopped up version of it. Now, I am with my BF that he compares nothing to. I'm happy and although I sometimes wonder about him because I feel we didn't have closure, I know he wasnt for me. Sorry OP for jackin ur thread . Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hey, Thanks for sharing the story. we met and I wasn't that interested, physically yes, but wasn't really ready to be serious with anyone Well, I guess that'd be similar to my case. But to my dismay, he was still my FWB as I stated in the beginning. That wasn't working much for me, I loved him a lot but never told him. That's pretty sad you never told him. And after all that time. We never spoke again, I was miserable for about three years after. Eek, sorry. That's a long time to be miserable too. Now, I am with my BF that he compares nothing to. I'm happy... Phew... well, that gives me some hope at least. Maybe after three years or so I'll be over the Denver guy and can be romantic again with someone else. It's hard when you think that he's the one. Sorry for highjacking... Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hey, Thanks for sharing the story. we met and I wasn't that interested, physically yes, but wasn't really ready to be serious with anyone Well, I guess that'd be similar to my case. But to my dismay, he was still my FWB as I stated in the beginning. That wasn't working much for me, I loved him a lot but never told him. That's pretty sad you never told him. And after all that time. We never spoke again, I was miserable for about three years after. Eek, sorry. That's a long time to be miserable too. Now, I am with my BF that he compares nothing to. I'm happy... Phew... well, that gives me some hope at least. Maybe after three years or so I'll be over the Denver guy and can be romantic again with someone else. It's hard when you think that he's the one. Sorry for highjacking... Ariadne Yeah it is hard. But don't apply three years to your situation. Please. That is two much time devoted to someone who is devoted to someone else. Thats kind of the thing with me, it took me so long I think, because I didn't know what he was up to. I think if I hada laid things out on the table and he did the same that I woulda been at peace with the seperation. He was upset with me for pushing him away for so long and felt that he proved himself to me a long time ago. He was resentful toward me and IMO wanted to hurt me back. I was stubborn and would never tell him how much he was hurting me or how I felt about him. Other than that, I'd never let someone take up that much of my brain space. Also, he lied to me anyways and there was someone else, at least in the beginning. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Hey, Yeah it is hard. But don't apply three years to your situation. Please. That is two much time devoted to someone who is devoted to someone else. Well, I was just saying. I think if I had laid things out on the table and he did the same that I woulda been at peace with the seperation. Oh, I see, you didn't have closure. That's the worst. The last I heard from Denver guy was that he was going to go on a bike ride, and then didn't talk to me again because she forbid him to (she emailed me to let me know he wasn't going to talk to me again). So, as far as I know, he still wants to talk to me, he still likes me, but he can't talk. If it were because of his initiative then I'd have some closure I suppose. We never said goodbye. He was upset with me for pushing him away for so long and felt that he proved himself to me a long time ago. He was resentful toward me and IMO wanted to hurt me back. I was stubborn and would never tell him how much he was hurting me or how I felt about him. Ack, that sounds like a mess. Also, he lied to me anyways and there was someone else, at least in the beginning. Yeah, the fwb did the same. He didn't tell me anything about dating someone else, and when I found out he already had a few dates with her. But I didn't get upset or anything, I just left him alone and wished him good luck with her. Maybe she could give him what I couldn't, you know, a relationship etc. But it didn't work out, so I lucked out. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Lynn&Troy Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 Everyday, we work together and live together so I see him pretty much all day long every day. How do you manage living with and working with your boyfriend? I may be in the same boat and would like some pointers. Link to post Share on other sites
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