Guest Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 I've had a crush on this guy for a few months--mostly from afar though we've spoken a few times--we work near each other. Each time we've spoken it's been on my initiation--4 times. Last Tuesday I asked him out, and he very quickly said yes. I asked him if he wanted my number and he put it in his Blackberry and tested it so we'd know it worked. We talked for a few more minutes, before I had to go back to work (was on lunch break). He didn't actually say he'd call, but it was essentially implied by the taking of the number and making sure it worked. When I asked him out he didn't seem surprised I'd asked, so he was either waiting for it, was interested or was just used to be asked out a lot. It was all very casual and low key, which was fine. No hooplah in planning anything. It's been 8 days now and not a word. Only because he seemed interested am I surprised that it's taking him this long. I figure he could be dating other people or doesn't want to seem overanxious considering I asked him...but how long until I should just forget about it? I don't want to call because I've initiated conversation four times already, and when he took my number and tested it, it basically implied he was going to call, plus I don't want to push. Thoughts? Men??? Link to post Share on other sites
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