narcist_ave Posted September 29, 2006 Share Posted September 29, 2006 Ok, previously I submitted a thread called "My Story"... Well, one thing that bothers me about my boyfriend is how he barely communicates "daily" activities with me.. this meaning out of mere conversation I know nothing of his day or activities. I find out from his friends!! For example: One day he tells me "i was racing some 'vet on the freeway, bla bla blue my oil line, etc... had to change it in the heat, bla bla", he was at work at the time we talked on the phone earlier that day, etc... come to find out he wasnt even alone, nor was he at work.. he was at his friends house working on his car and when he was racing he had his 2 friends with him wh ohelped him change his oil-something.. anyway I know he wasnt cheating atm, but why does he fail to mention the little things?? his brother recently told me (story 1) of two woman who they met at the pool about a month ago. One was hot he says the other was ugly.. he was saying they were super slu*ty , etc.. (story 2) earlier i yesterday or w/e I asked him who was all at his shop.. he replies (my bf) the regulars,etc.. later his brother tells me about this super hot girl that was there... Now I know ur all thinking im making a big deal out of this but why doesnt he mention little things like that to me? Its like he fails to tell me things and I dont get it. Just like (him and his brother have their own shop) i always thought he was at work working his as* off for 12 hours a day(which he is) but all their buddies hang out there!@! i went up there one day and theres his buddies and two of their g/f's. I would think out of mere conversation he would tell me of his days activities. this is making me insanely jealous. I used to get mad about him not involving me in his life, but now that he is i learn more and more (even tho little things) of things he never would of told me.. am I being ridiculously imature? I know his personality and he is a tad distant, i accepted this at first but its getting beyond distant and its making me feel as I have stated in a previous thread Like I am just his shadow or secret? o, and when i ask him why he doesnt tell me little things like that he says cause its not important. but by not telling me and hearing it from his brother or his friend it makes me feel like he's hiding stuff any advice? thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
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