zep52 Posted October 1, 2006 Share Posted October 1, 2006 My ex broke it of with me 5 months ago, i went strait into NC and after 3 or so months accepted (kind of) that she meant it and that it was over, Then 2 weeks ago i started getting phone calls on my mobile (cell) phone with the number withheld, at first i thought nothing of it but over the course of a week i was getting 2 a day and each time when i answered they hung up, I kept telling myself that it was not her but as the week progressed i became convinced that it was, anyhow this all came to a head last Saturday when my home phone rang at 2.AM, i knew it was her and didn't answer it, thinking i would play it cool, To cut a long one short she hasn't called since and now i find myself wishing she would, after 5 months i feel like I'm back at the start waiting for the phone to ring, my head keeps telling me that she will call and to play it cool, but my heart wants to phone her, i wont but she has kind of messed me up again, Am i right to play it cool and wait, or should i phone her and try to find out what the hell she is playing this cruel game for, Help Please... Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted October 1, 2006 Share Posted October 1, 2006 You don't know for sure that it was her. After 5 months, I'd just let it go. If you call, she'll deny it was her and you'll end up either angry or feeling stupid for contacting her. AND it will restart the healing process where you're always waiting/hoping for her to call. Just move on and enjoy your life without her. Link to post Share on other sites
ImInPain Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 If you love her and you feel she is reaching out why not call? Pride? Well that is not a good reason. I would call if that's what your heart says. Link to post Share on other sites
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