everlong Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 blushes you are far to kind my lady [bows] lol not sure if i am so wise though...it is easy to preach then practice what one preaches.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author konfuzd Posted October 18, 2006 Author Share Posted October 18, 2006 So, I get an e-mail from him today saying sorry he's been such a sh*t lately, but he's been "dealing with the ex " and then he went on to say he wasn't sure if he could keep some plans we'd made for next month because he had to confirm he could get the day off work. He had told me a few weeks back that he'd already secured the day off. I just replied simply saying, "I was wondering what's been up with you, I hope everything is ok." Any thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted October 18, 2006 Share Posted October 18, 2006 Island girl walks the fine line with the grace of a ballet dancer! ???? What do you mean by this? Explain this comment please. Link to post Share on other sites
Loveslacker Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 ???? What do you mean by this? Explain this comment please. My dear, I say that in response to your post: People who know me would in no way call me submissive. I too go after what I want. Very much pursuing the man I want with flirting, getting and keeping his attention, etc. I just don't call them or ask them out. I leave the door open for them to ask me out and they have a VERY strong indication that I will say yes. The relationship develops with him actively chasing and me kind of leading the way. I think that indicates that you have a good understanding of male-female roles. Some posters here think that man and woman are equal and your post celebrates the differences. I meant that you understand where the line is between the two, and you stay on it with precision. I hope to not offend you... Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 I think that indicates that you have a good understanding of male-female roles. Some posters here think that man and woman are equal and your post celebrates the differences. I meant that you understand where the line is between the two, and you stay on it with precision. I hope to not offend you... Thank you for clarifying. I just wasn't quite sure if it was a compliment or a blade sliding in so smoothly and cleanly that I couldn't feel it. Thank you for you compliment and I too find that a lot of people stress equality when we are not in some areas. Instead I wish to sing praises of our differences. It is those things that people value so much in each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Loveslacker Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Thank you for clarifying. I just wasn't quite sure if it was a compliment or a blade sliding in so smoothly and cleanly that I couldn't feel it. Thank you for you compliment and I too find that a lot of people stress equality when we are not in some areas. Instead I wish to sing praises of our differences. It is those things that people value so much in each other. My Dear, you are welcome. You are beautiful in words and in looks, I know this. An angel walks in beauty and in pain. What you see is not what others do and it is a curse, but God has put you here for a reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Author konfuzd Posted October 21, 2006 Author Share Posted October 21, 2006 What an odd turn this thread has taken. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 So, I get an e-mail from him today saying sorry he's been such a sh*t lately, but he's been "dealing with the ex " and then he went on to say he wasn't sure if he could keep some plans we'd made for next month because he had to confirm he could get the day off work. He had told me a few weeks back that he'd already secured the day off. I just replied simply saying, "I was wondering what's been up with you, I hope everything is ok." Any thoughts? To me this just confirms what I thought about this situation all along. Looks like you are about his 10th propority at the moment. It's not looking good. He is obviously still very much stuck on the ex, and if they end up working things out expect him to desapear from your life completly. If they don't you will have more stringing along to deal with in the future. He is still keeping you as a back up at this stage. Sorry I couldn't be more optimistic. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 What an odd turn this thread has taken. agreed.... Link to post Share on other sites
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