Guest Posted October 2, 2006 Share Posted October 2, 2006 A couple of years ago I had a brief but intense relationship with a guy which ended really badly. We were literally at each other's throats at any given chance for over a year after this breakup. Basically we broke up because of miscommunication, he was kinda distant and I got clingy, started fighting all the time, he broke it off with me. Now, before this recent 'comeback' our last fight ended with him telling me he hated me. This was about 8-9 months ago now, give or take. Recently he's been popping up around places he knows I frequent often, and he's been really decent to me. Maybe a week ago now a guy I know told me he was saying some bad things about me, so I decided to outright ask him about it via instant mesenger. He gets back to me saying he didn't and asks why, and then signs off before I can even respond. We both hang out on a ventrillo server for online gaming, we're both pretty into that and he comes on instantly just to tell me he didn't say that. Then he stays for hours and just makes small talk. Ok fine, I don't have a big problem with that and we've been talking like old friends a few times over the past month now. So the other night I ran into him again, and he left right away saying he was going to watch cute girls run around in shorts and a t-shirt. He comes back a couple of hours later saying he's a bad boy, and then doesn't say anything to me until he left. He did have the courtesy to tell me he was leaving though but that's about all he said to me the whole time he was in there. I dunno, but to me that seemed like an attempt to get some kind of reaction out of me, maybe to make me jealous or something. Why would he do this after all this time and after all the things that have happened between us (good and bad) after he told me to move on and leave things alone? Is he trying to come back now and is 'testing the water' so to speak, or just messing with my head for some kind of ego stroke or what? Link to post Share on other sites
JosiePosie Posted October 10, 2006 Share Posted October 10, 2006 Any guy who mentions women in shorts and whatnot is definitely looking for a reaction. I wouldn't give him the time of day anymore. What is done is done. Don't react to his bait. Would you want to get back with someone who plays that type of game? I hope not. Link to post Share on other sites
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