Guest Posted October 3, 2006 Share Posted October 3, 2006 I love my boyfriend. And things are usually great. However, when he gets drunk it is a totally situation. I have torn ligaments in my shoulder because of him. He has broken my nose and has tried to strangle me. This does not happen all the time. Almost never. However, when we go out drinking we sometimes argue and it escalates. He was abused as a child ( I know this is not an excuse). But when he's sober he gets upset if I want to go out with my friends. If a guy calls me, he gets very upset and mad at me. I don't know if this is because I have cheated on him or what. It sounds like an abusive relationship to me, but i can't admit it to myself. He has called me fat before, but has also told me he likes to way I look. He also says if we get married he does not want a fat wife. I want to get him help, but I need to know the signs of abuse. Also, I want to get him help without him being angry. Link to post Share on other sites
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