Almost Posted October 4, 2006 Share Posted October 4, 2006 This always happens to me, and just happened again at a party I was at Friday night. There's a girl I like and have known for a while, we kind of flirt when we meet and what not, but I never ask her out or tell her that I like her. In reality I can't seem to make up my mind if I really like her or not, and that's why I hesitate. There's a lot I like about her, but I always find some reason why not to make a move. Sometimes I really do like the girl and admit it to myself, but I don't have enough courage to ask her out or make a move, or just keep waiting for the perfect moment that never comes. So then I bring my friend to this party and she is there and we're hanging out, talking. They hit it off right away, flirt around, get each other's numbers, and go out. Then I'm like freaking out, because I had plenty of time and chances to do the same thing but didn't, and I'm kicking myself over it. Although I don't really know for sure if she would have liked me and been into me if I had asked her out. Sometimes I wait and hesitate so long, by the time I get around to asking a girl out, its too late and I end up in the friends zone and then when I do ask her out she's like "no I don't think so, let's just be friends." I wish I could just get out of this stupid cycle I'm in and grow some balls and be able to put myself out there and take chances with women, rather than always hesitating and being so freakin afraid of rejection or whatever. Link to post Share on other sites
lovebug76 Posted October 4, 2006 Share Posted October 4, 2006 take a chance before you really miss out!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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