rbowes Posted October 5, 2006 Share Posted October 5, 2006 Title is meant to say need help with nc I met my ex at the begining of last year at university. We had a really great relationship until about 2 weeks ago when she unexpectedly broke it off. At the begining of our relationship she was very needy, and I was careful to not be too clingy. But as the months went by i got to need her. We live in far apart cities so over the 4 month break we saw each other only 3 times. I guess over that time she became more independant and i stayed needy. This was her reason for breaking it off. She said she still loves me, and I defanetly still love her back, but she wants to settle in and be with her housemates and whatnot. I asked for a second chance but she said no. All this time we are in one of the same classes, and every monday wednesday friday we go to class then have lunch then i walk her part or all of the way home, also we do the assignments together, and sometimes get snuggly while taking a break from work. No surprises each time we are together it makes me happy, then we part and I feel like ****. I figure I will do the pathetic last chance thing once more, tommorow night when we do the assignment together, or, friday after class. Then I think it would be best to go NC, for me to heal, or her to realize she might still want me. My question is, how can I do it? There is no option to take a different class, and I've been waiting for her at the door every day since the begining of the semester. If I'm not supposed to tell her I'm going NC how do I stop seeing her in class? We are still good friends and I don't want to be a jerk, but i really need to getover her/get her back. Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted October 5, 2006 Share Posted October 5, 2006 Just act like nothing ever happened. Treat her as you would any other girl in the class. I want to puke when I hear guys worrying about coming off as a "jerk" towards some woman who no longer has any romantic interest in him. Forget about her and get a new girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
ImInPain Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 Move along... Just act as if she is one of the guys. Dont change anything. Don't cuddle and be touchy feely anymore though. Mixed signals = bad. If she wants you back she will let you know. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Link to post Share on other sites
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