Guest Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 I'm a freshman in college and this man is also a freshman. We go to same college. Well...I feel very very guilty about what I did right now. Actually, I had sex with this guy who had a girlfriend. Although I don't know if he's still, he WAS kind of a cheater. Now he broke up with her because of another reason. And she doesn't know anything about that. But I know I was stupid, a total bitch. I can never ever believe what I did... I don't want to believe but I did that anyway.... So...there is a problem. Becuase He said he loves me after he's broken up with her. you might think I should've said to him "NO" but I couldn't say that. Actually, I didn't say anything yet. I don't know what to say because I might like him. I know we shouldn't be together. But I think that's going to be hard for me. I just want to forget what I(we) did but and I can't love him. I mean I shouldn't love him.... but I can't hide this feeling... I know it's silly and I was wrong. If his ex gf know this, I would make her mad and really really sad... but if you have something to tell or advise me. anything will be appreciated... Link to post Share on other sites
Cheshire Cat Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 If you got together with this guy, could you ever really trust him? I don't think so - you'd be continuously worrying in the back of your mind whether he might be cheating on you. You did something not nice. You feel guilty - which is a good thing. If you didn't feel guilty, you'd probably have a problem. Classify it as a mistake. Forgive yourself. Do not do it again. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Well first of all was his girlfriend a friend of yours? If not, and he broke up with her maybe it's because he does like you. In college, people date different people to find new experiences. I don't think you should feel that guilty unless his girlfriend is a friend of yours. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Yes why are YOU being so hard on yourself. ? He slept with you , cheated on his girlfriend ? You don't want this as a bf do you ? I think not. You want to know how to get rid of him....just tell him you arent ready for a relationship right now . Link to post Share on other sites
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