Rachel Posted March 19, 2002 Share Posted March 19, 2002 Okay, question about this guy I know is single and from all accounts seems to be nice. 1. I don't know him very well..... I see him by chance every 3-4 months.... at social settings or out and about. 2. I saw he had an ad in an online website.... The PROBLEM: it says the last time he's been "logged on" to this website was a month ago! So: does that mean that 1. he is dating someone, and that's why he has NOT logged on? 2. Should I respond to the Add online, even though I know him and he knows me(both on the surface). Or, should I call him and find out if he's dating anyone? even though I don't know him very well. Or should I send an anonymous letter to his online add then see if he is interested? Help would be appreciated Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 19, 2002 Share Posted March 19, 2002 The shortest distance between two places is a straight line. Don't take the circuitous route in this case. Contact him directly and ask for his status. No matter what he's up to now, it can't be a situation to which he is totally committed in such a short amount of time. All's fair in love. Don't ever screw your mind up by making so many assumptions about what may or may not be going on in a person's life because they didn't sign onto a dating website for a while. He could be making a movie in Hollywood, he could have won the lottery, or he could just be very constipated. Give him a call ASAP! Link to post Share on other sites
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