Kaiyu42 Posted October 10, 2006 Share Posted October 10, 2006 Well, I don't really have a problem with talking to girls for me, it's more of starting out. Let me explane. There is a few girls I want to talk too... however, I have a hard time starting to talk to them. After I break the ice I can chat on and on alot of times. If I'm in line with one I talk to them (it's in fact how I met my ex, old and only g/f) and I do have a few friends who are girls. However, alot of it was chance meetings then anything else. There is a few girls in a club I go to (then again, it's ONLY a few girls) and I want to talk and all... along with other girls. However, I can't ever seem to start anything or even get close to them without fearing something. I always think that if I just come in and sit down next to a girl, they will start to think I'm trying to pick them up right off the bat, while at first all I want to do is make a new friend. But I just seem to have that fear I guess. While I don't have that fear after talking to them, it's just sitting down next to a girl in a whole big area and all... is there anyway I can beat this fear. It's really the only think that seems to hold me back. Mostly cause chance doesn't happen that offer to me it seems... So is there anything that can help me with this? Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted October 13, 2006 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Don't be afraid of us girls We don't bite . Well , unless you request it...lol... If what you are looking for is friends then treat her like one of the guys. Seriously. Just be normal around her. But most likely you might develop feelings and thats why alot of ppl don't want to do the male/female buddy thing. But everyone is different. You can have girls as friends. Just remember it get complicated when you start getting feelings for her, sexual or otherwise. But if you EVER look at her as someone you want to sleep with NEVER try to be her buddy first. Be her lover first. That way you dont get stuck in the unrequited friendzone. Some may disagree and say be friends first. But if you have romance in mind be her love master Link to post Share on other sites
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