MTK Posted October 10, 2006 Share Posted October 10, 2006 I'll stick to the points. She dumped me, "for no reason" but started dating another guy days later. Yeah, total BS. Out of the blue she contacts me on an instant message asking if I wanted some of my stuff back. I ignored her and then blocked her. I went to my football game in MN, and came back to deal with this crap. I hadn't been in contact with her since last April, but we go to the same school. I have a 3rd person go get my stuff back. She delays this for 11 days now, and then decides to keep my stuff because we had agreed to keep whatever was each other's stuff, and let it be. Meanwhile, she's been in my dorm, all guys, and her bf doesn't live here. I don't go in hers, and stay away from her as much as possible. I was doing great until she just sprung this on me. Now I'm pissed because I can't get my stuff back, nor do I really remember what it is, but it must have meant something because I always gave from the heart. Also, someone has been putting pictures up of her and boytoy on my door the last couple of nights. I can't prove that it is her or not. Then during the football game, she has the audacity to come to my side of the lines where we're having team meetings during the game... across the field from the home bleachers (yes, it's really set up that way, oddball coaching idea I guess). I've talked to the school counselor to let him know this is all happening, but I'm kind of ticked off because I was about ready to ask a girl out before this happened and it screwed up my mental focus. Any suggestions on why she messing with my life now? Link to post Share on other sites
Ruff Ryder Posted October 10, 2006 Share Posted October 10, 2006 I could give you at least 50 reasons why she is doing that...... Pick one mate. At the end of the day you have made yourself unavalible to her and she cant take it. She is pulling out all the stops to make you notice or pay some attention to her again. What should you do? Me I would call her childish play and then leave it.... RUN FOR THE HILLS this girl sounds a tad psyco man. Hmmmm, what do you wan here/ In all honesty you can use this to your advantage. All people like a challange so be one with the ex and others will see and also try with you in time. Things will cool down just chill it and dont give her any of your time ok? Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Any suggestions on why she messing with my life now? Because you (correctly) didn't react when she dumped you. It sounds like you just took it in stride and have been completely ambivalent towards her. That ruffled her feathers. Keep up the good work! Link to post Share on other sites
neiu Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 ask the girl you were going to ask out. ignore your ex cause shes no good for you and because she truly is psycho. why deal with old news thats caused you so much grief. why not get on something new and see what direction that takes you cause you know with your ex...well that's why she is now your ex. if your ex still doesn't get why you ignore her tell her straight up that you don't want to talk to her and tell her to screw off. honestly, do you need someone like that in your life causing you trouble? i think not. Link to post Share on other sites
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