Guest Posted October 10, 2006 Share Posted October 10, 2006 My h had been using crack several times per week, but is now trying to get off it. I recently found out that once while at another couples house he smoked it and then told the other woman, quite bluntly (while her h was out of the room) that he wanted to F*** her. Her H walked back in the room in time to overhear this, so nothing happened between the h and woman. Now, once this story got back to me (from someone else to whom it had been related by the woman) I confronted my h with it. At first he denied ever having said it, then finally came clean. His excuse was he didn't mean it, the crack made him do it. But the few times he has smoked that **** when I have been around all it ever made him do was hide in a corner cause he was paranoid. He says it makes you immediately horny and he was just reacting to that, yet he has NEVER tried to have sex with me immediately after smmoking it, just gets all paranoid looking out windows or hiding. I have no concept of what it does do to you, but I am thinking he is just using that as an excuse for him actually trying to get in her pants and being found out. Opinions? Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywithafan Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 My h had been using crack several times per week, but is now trying to get off it. I recently found out that once while at another couples house he smoked it and then told the other woman, quite bluntly (while her h was out of the room) that he wanted to F*** her. Her H walked back in the room in time to overhear this, so nothing happened between the h and woman. Now, once this story got back to me (from someone else to whom it had been related by the woman) I confronted my h with it. At first he denied ever having said it, then finally came clean. His excuse was he didn't mean it, the crack made him do it. But the few times he has smoked that **** when I have been around all it ever made him do was hide in a corner cause he was paranoid. He says it makes you immediately horny and he was just reacting to that, yet he has NEVER tried to have sex with me immediately after smmoking it, just gets all paranoid looking out windows or hiding. I have no concept of what it does do to you, but I am thinking he is just using that as an excuse for him actually trying to get in her pants and being found out. Opinions? It depends on what it's cut with...some crack is called "kootchie" and it does make you horney & happy...other crack is cut with stuff that is so speedy that it makes you crazy the minute you do a hit....the base is like pot...you're just stuck & happy.... Link to post Share on other sites
motherlode Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Please please get your husband some help re his crack use. You should not be concerned with his advances toward otheris highly addictive stuff will destroy your family. My brother (who used to be an awesome Dad) now leaves his young family for days at a time while he goes on these awful crack binges. He has gone to rehab once already and was back on the street 11 days after getting out! PLEASE take this seriously or you will be worried about more than his infidelity issues. Good luck to you! Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 I dated a guy 2 years ago who started smoking crack while we dated. He ended up cheating on me about 8 times, that I know of, during the course of 8-9 months. I never knew until after we split up. This could be due to low morals, or drug abuse, but I tend to think it's a mixture of both. Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywithafan Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 I dated a guy 2 years ago who started smoking crack while we dated. He ended up cheating on me about 8 times, that I know of, during the course of 8-9 months. I never knew until after we split up. This could be due to low morals, or drug abuse, but I tend to think it's a mixture of both. In my experience, during the time I got high, I never slept with another man until I was so pissed at my bf (who was getting his d*ck sucked everywhere) that I slept with 2 guys. That was it in two years time. If you smoke crack and have low morals, god help you.... Link to post Share on other sites
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