koolkat68 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 me and my girlfriend broke up about two months ago...or to be more exact she dumped me...i tried to get back with her immediately....which now when i look back i think was a mistake...because i probably just scared her away..nobody likes a guy that begs right...well for the most part i hadn't spoken to her in about a month and a half..but about a week ago i saw her at work...and i fugured i'd say hi...we ended talking for about two hours...and then she asked if i would take a break with her so i did...after we were done talking she said that it was good talking to me...so i go home i'm not going to lie i was kind of happy but i didn't get my hopes up....so the next day i'm sitting at home lying down, when i get a text message from her...kinda surprsed me cuz we haven't talked in while...so we exchanged text msgs for about an hour...so a bit more happier, but still not trying to get my hopes up...so i'm at work the next day and i'm called to the front for a guest, which i thought was wiered cuz nobody ever comes to see me at work...when i get there, she was there waiting for me; saying that she had brought me some ciggarettes because she owed me some from way back when we were still together...so in the course of three days all this happened...and now my hopes are little up....i talked to her yesterday for a couple of minutes before she had to go to bed since she had work at 6 in the morning....but i haven't talked to her today...most people tell me that i called yesterday so i should let her make the next move...but that leaves me wondering all those othere things may have been her intiating the interaction...i don't know...is this a second chance you guys...please let me know i would like a little insight...should i jump on this or just play it cool...i could really use the help...i'm so confused Link to post Share on other sites
Confuggled_one Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 she might be leading you on, or she might have realized wha ta great guy you are. i say take it slow.. go with the flow man Link to post Share on other sites
Author koolkat68 Posted October 12, 2006 Author Share Posted October 12, 2006 yeah i think thats what i'm going to do...who knows what her intentions are....she is moving out of town in a about a month or so...do you think that might be a reason???...but at the same time if she's interested again i dont want her to think that i'm not....but what else is there for me to do than to play it cool... Link to post Share on other sites
G-B Posted October 14, 2006 Share Posted October 14, 2006 I was kinda in a similar situation, she would call me and stop by, stuff like that, I didn't know if she was leading me on but I knew my girl wasnt that type of person. Just go with the flow, dont get your hopes up AT ALL, she knows yall still have feelings for eachtoher and you don't have to let her know that you still want her. Your best bet is to be friendly and show her you are doing fine without her in your life, as soon as I did that my ex came back. hope this helps a little, I kinda see it as you are starting all over again just being friends, play hard to get. Link to post Share on other sites
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