Snicker23 Posted March 22, 2002 Share Posted March 22, 2002 Well I am on a confused level. she is 19 I am 23. I love the girl I am with I care for her I worry about her when she is not around I want to and try (mostly not annoyingly) to give her a good time make her smile confort her etc. . . She has been acting strange in the last 4 weeks it had got better a bit but is still strange. It all started when I excepted a job at a place that she works at once maybe twice a week and she did not like that but the owner needed another person because she is volunteering alot of places and has archery tournments when he needs her so he asked if I would fill in for her when she was not there. I excepted so she got upset and would not talk to me. Than after that it became that she was annoyed suddenly that when at the local hockey games that she volunteers at I was at and was getting in her way by talk to her a bit. (but she stops and talks to everyone else and that is ok)also she says she has alot of stress from the college work she has. I had to figure this out for myself. So I talk to her and told her I would quit the one job and go on well she says no and it is ok but I will not ever work with her. o.k. I thought everything was ok Wrong she was fine for one night than it is all over again but now she doesn't want to be alone with me, only wants to go with me when it is something either she doesn't have a ride, it costs money and well I end up with the bill, or I have info that she wants, odd to is if I am going with one of her friends b/f out he has his g/f so she comes along (but they like her and all but not the way she is treating me) I have been asking her for two weeks to have time alone and she says soon or yes. has not happened yet. I was wondering if it was what happened around that time to was that she was laying down I was giving her a massage which led to (under the blanket so I did not see anything but felt) me playing with her pussy ( she is a virgin too.) I asked her if she wanted me to stop and she said no it feels good and keep going she moved a bit into my finger which started to penatrate her and she layed there smiling than she started to fall a sleep and before that she says that I can keep going if I want to but just if her parents come home stop and do her pants up I did go for about a minute than I got up and washed my hand and watched t.v. and well her parents came home I left went home and the following week is when the problems started. could this also be a part of it ??? she is wanting to slow up, getting scared that she actually is in love, scared that we are really serious and never been there??? I know she doesn't want sex before marriage and that is for me too I was thinking of telling her that just to re-assure her but I am not sure if I should. I have also asked her what she thinks about me and she says she loves me and doesn't want to lose me. She is also telling me that she loves me. is she just being nice and hoping i will break up with her or is she just floating till the trip is over in May??( the trip in may is there is her me and another couple (the ones that i talked about earlier) are going camping in may for 4days and 3 nights she (my g/f) really has no money so i will be paying for it and she like to camp and really has no body to go with other than her parents or has a vehicle of their own as I own my own vehicle)thing is I fell I am being used and I care for her so much i am not sure how i can let go. or ask her what is up Please Help me Thanks all Link to post Share on other sites
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