Konfused Posted March 23, 2002 Share Posted March 23, 2002 Hello everyone! I have a question which I need some advice on! Here goes! I've met these two wonderful ladies whom I both like very much! The first one is funny, smart and makes me feel so comfortable when we talk to each other. She knows what she wants out of life and is focused on attaining her goal. The second one, is just the opposite of the first. She too is funny, smart and makes me feel comfortable just as much as the first but the only difference is that she is a mom of two. She had them when she was very young and doesn't seem to have any goals set for her! The both of them live out of state but live fairly close to me. They say they like me alot and that they want me to go and visit them. My question is, "What am I suppose to do in this situation!" I enjoy their company very much but I can't seem to choose from one or the other! I don't want to hurt anyone of them but I don't want to look like a player because I'm not! Please help? Link to post Share on other sites
velvet Posted March 23, 2002 Share Posted March 23, 2002 Where did you meet them? Are you looking for a long term r/s with someone? You can date the both of them for awhile until you know. There is nothing wrong with dating a couple of people to find which one of them makes your heart thump the most. Find out what these ladies want, if its a long term r/s or just someone to pass the time with. If they both are looking to have serious r/s with you, you have to either make a decision or let them know that however interested you are in them, you want to date other people for awhile. It really just comes down to which of the two you can see yourself with. Now if you like kids, and understand that a mother will not love you more than her children, and that you cannot be jealous of her time she spends with her kids, your on the right track with her. My best g/f ended a r/s because her b/f was tiered of not having alone time with her. Just relax and try not to judge one over the other. I think when you not think about that the answer will come to you. Hello everyone! I have a question which I need some advice on! Here goes! I've met these two wonderful ladies whom I both like very much! The first one is funny, smart and makes me feel so comfortable when we talk to each other. She knows what she wants out of life and is focused on attaining her goal. The second one, is just the opposite of the first. She too is funny, smart and makes me feel comfortable just as much as the first but the only difference is that she is a mom of two. She had them when she was very young and doesn't seem to have any goals set for her! The both of them live out of state but live fairly close to me. They say they like me alot and that they want me to go and visit them. My question is, "What am I suppose to do in this situation!" I enjoy their company very much but I can't seem to choose from one or the other! I don't want to hurt anyone of them but I don't want to look like a player because I'm not! Please help? Link to post Share on other sites
Snicker23 Posted March 23, 2002 Share Posted March 23, 2002 My advice is from a simular thing that happened to me. PArt is be honest with yourself, don't wait to long to chose, also you are just friends with both correct, if so talk to each one. Tell them that you like both and you don't want to hurt the other and the answer may come. Also here is the one thing that would make me sway one way and it is partly because of my age (23) and the way things are in the world. Think here is what you want, One has not just one child but two and the other non, I know I have a busy schedule and also a love for children but I want the children as mine and see me as so. Chance are with the info I have I would thou take the one that has no children but this is me and I know myself well enough that I feel this way but maybe if I met the right girl/lady I would change my mind. Good Luck and give an update Link to post Share on other sites
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