sare Posted March 27, 2002 Share Posted March 27, 2002 now my b/f is mad at me without looking at the reason why i quit which is because of another co-worker that i can't stand and we got into a big confrontaion yesterday and i walked out knowing the manager likes/favors her anyway. my b/ is really mad at me even when i went immediately to other places to fill out appplications. is it fair of him to be so mad at me? i feel like just moving out then if that the way he wants to feel, no trust in me to get another job or something. jobs are hard to find here and it took me along time to find this one, i was only there for two months and for the two months i was really unhappy, now he is mad at me and i am again unhappy so i can't win. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 27, 2002 Share Posted March 27, 2002 If your boyfriend is mad at you for getting out of an unpleasant situation and trying to better yourself by finding a job with people and surroundings you're more compatible with, he's not much of a boyfriend. Partners are supposed to be supportive and understanding. Maybe he never learned that. Are boyfriends as hard to find as jobs in your area? If not, let him know if he doesn't change his attitude you'll be out of there. If so, then either put up with his crap or do without a boyfriend altogether for a while. I would say this is not the type of guy most women would want for a boyfriend or a lifetime partner. He's not very mature, certainly not supportive, not understanding and he likes chaos. If that's the kind of life you want, knock yourself out and stay with him. I think most people like to be a lot nicer to themselves than that. Link to post Share on other sites
Laurynn Posted March 28, 2002 Share Posted March 28, 2002 There's so much more to this situation that we don't know. Do you have a history of quitting jobs frequently? Do you quit jobs at the drop of a hat, making all kinds of excuses as to why you do so? Do you live with your b/f? Do the both of you RELY (financially) on your income (as well as his?)..and his anger is based on fear of how you'll both financially survive until you have an income again? Lots of people have jobs they don't love. Lots of people have to deal with co-workers they're not crazy about, some even have co-workers they despise.....that's just life. That's reality. There's no "perfect job" with "perfect coworkers." If you have a real history of quitting jobs after only working there for a short time, then I can see why your b/f would be angry. Nobody wants to date a lazy, excuse-making individual who can't deal with life. now my b/f is mad at me without looking at the reason why i quit which is because of another co-worker that i can't stand and we got into a big confrontaion yesterday and i walked out knowing the manager likes/favors her anyway. my b/ is really mad at me even when i went immediately to other places to fill out appplications. is it fair of him to be so mad at me? i feel like just moving out then if that the way he wants to feel, no trust in me to get another job or something. jobs are hard to find here and it took me along time to find this one, i was only there for two months and for the two months i was really unhappy, now he is mad at me and i am again unhappy so i can't win. Link to post Share on other sites
sare Posted March 30, 2002 Share Posted March 30, 2002 There's so much more to this situation that we don't know. Do you have a history of quitting jobs frequently? Do you quit jobs at the drop of a hat, making all kinds of excuses as to why you do so? Do you live with your b/f? Do the both of you RELY (financially) on your income (as well as his?)..and his anger is based on fear of how you'll both financially survive until you have an income again? Lots of people have jobs they don't love. Lots of people have to deal with co-workers they're not crazy about, some even have co-workers they despise.....that's just life. That's reality. There's no "perfect job" with "perfect coworkers." If you have a real history of quitting jobs after only working there for a short time, then I can see why your b/f would be angry. Nobody wants to date a lazy, excuse-making individual who can't deal with life. those were some pretty harsh words you threw at me but i am not lazy and i can deal with life just find and i dont understand why you are being so cruel when you dont even know me or the full situation. i was at my last job for 3/1-2 years and took this other job for more money, but it is too physical and my body just cant handle all the work. i had to quit thursday because i was having extreme pain in my calfs and i still am. my lower back was hurting nonstop as was my right forearm for all the nonstop work i had to do with it. i'm still haveing alot of pain even a weak later and now need to go to a chiropractor today. i have to start all over again looking for a new job and yes my boyfriend is not mad at me again. why he dont understand that i cant take the work physically i dont know, he sees me in pain every day so how can he think i would be faking it? i had such bad pains in my arm through the night that i alsmost went to the emergency room, but i took some aspirin instead and laid there quietly. this morning i told him about my wretched night and he didnt really seem to care, to him it is just another day of my complainig, so what am i suppose to do if i cant complain to him then to who? i'm sure he is burnt out on all my complaining but that still hurts that i cant talk to him and complain and unburden myself and my fears to him. Link to post Share on other sites
Bill Posted March 30, 2002 Share Posted March 30, 2002 You originally wrote that you had quit the job because: now my b/f is mad at me without looking at the reason why i quit which is because of another co-worker that i can't stand and we got into a big confrontaion yesterday and i walked out knowing the manager likes/favors her anyway. Now you've totally changed your tune and say something completey different. You say now now quit your job because of numerous health problems and ailments. Next time keep your story (excuses) straight maybe? Link to post Share on other sites
sare Posted March 30, 2002 Share Posted March 30, 2002 excuse me but they are not excuses, i quit my job because of her! plain and simple, the other reason which in case you didnt know this there can be more then one reason for quitting a job. i happen to quit it because of both reason actually, it just happened that the first with the other girl made me quit or i would of had to quit anyway because my body could not handle the work, but i was definitely trying to stick it out until she came along and made such a pain in butt about her self that was my main reason for quitting. sorry for the confusion, but they are both ligigimate reasons. You originally wrote that you had quit the job because: Link to post Share on other sites
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