luvncurls Posted October 17, 2006 Share Posted October 17, 2006 Hi all, Ok, so my effots at self-growth have finally seemed to pay off as I am dating someone very nice. A friends brother who I asked to be introduced to, but who took the reigns of the dating. I have been seeing him for 1 1/2 months and yes we have slept together. I enjoyed it, it was safe and he was very attentive to x my needs. We see each other at least 1x a week and we speak 3-4x's a week. He went on vacation to his home country and brought me a few things, so I know that he was thinking of me while he was gone. As of yet he has given me no reason to think badly of him. However, I am naturally distrustful of men and always suspect the worst of them. I can't just seem to let myself enjoy the fact that I am dating a nice guy who seems to like me. I'm 26 and have never been a relationship more than 6 months. I am financially secure and generally happy with my friends and family. However. I do have abandonment issues. I am constantly worried that he will lose interest and ditch me. We just slept together for the 1st time a few days ago and I'm scared that he will run now that he got some. I hate that these thoughts keep creeping into my mind even though I don't want them there. I have ruined relationships because of my issues. Can anyone help me figure this out? Link to post Share on other sites
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