BlueEyedGirl Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 Whichever way you look at it, it is kind of seedy and sleazy. Imagine looking at that then going out to teach. It's just ... not right. If they are undeveloped kids then it's really sick and he should be reported. If they are regular teenegers it's still...yuck. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 Hey, I agree with you that he was turned on by her and started looking at porn. She is in her mid 20's and the guy is 40 and likes young girls, (and the partner is older than him). So he must like her. Besides, if a guy is having regular sex and is happy, he wouldn't be looking at porn at work anyway. When guys got to work, they just work. You know how they are. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 Hi, If they are undeveloped kids then it's really sick and he should be reported. If they are regular teenegers it's still...yuck. Most guys like young, beautiful, innocent girls. At least I know when I was 12 I was lusted by every coach. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 This is like answering a True/False test... She is in her mid 20's and the guy is 40 and likes young girls, (and the partner is older than him). So he must like her. This is faulty logic. The answer may be as false as it is true. Okay, my wife is older than me. I like to look at porn of younger women. I work with younger women. Therefore, I am attracted to those younger women...and must like them. Obviously, this does not have to be true. (BTW that was hypothetical). Besides, if a guy is having regular sex and is happy, he wouldn't be looking at porn at work anyway. When guys got to work, they just work. You know how they are. Also not true. Many men have regular sex (or so I have been told that they do.), but those same men look at porn regularly. Maybe not good, but it does happen. No, men don't just go to work to work. Many, many affairs begin in the workplace, so I am assuming that this is a bit tongue in cheek. Most guys like young, beautiful, innocent girls. Also not true. Yes, some men do, but many men "lust after" girls who look like women. In other words, the development of the girl may fool the man into thinking that the girl is older, but most men will not willfully lust after underage girls. Most "normal" men choose to not look at young girls and consider them "illegal." Personally, I have no trouble saying that too young is definitely not appealing. Whichever way you look at it, it is kind of seedy and sleazy. Imagine looking at that then going out to teach. I think we are making assumptions. He may have been curious or he may be a regular user. On the other hand, I would not want him teaching my daughter. And yes, it does have a sleazy air about it. I think she was saying they look much younger - like not shaven smooth but hair has never grown there smooth. I can see how you would be upset if the girls were underage..or even if they were not...but I do not believe that Hannah has made any indication of how old they were. There are hundreds of websites that brag about teen girls, but the definition of teen includes "adult" women of 18 or 19. By far, the majority of easily accessible websites are legal age women. The advertising is just that...advertising. If it were underage, he could be fired. Otherwise, he can only be viewed as "yuck" unless university policy forbids looking at porn during work hours. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 Hi, Okay, my wife is older than me. I like to look at porn of younger women. I work with younger women. Therefore, I am attracted to those younger women... That makes kind of sense to me... that he must be attracted to those young women. (I don't know is he'd be in love with them, but most likely attracted, if they are nice looking and sexy etc). Many men have regular sex (or so I have been told that they do.), but those same men look at porn regularly. Maybe not good, but it does happen. No, men don't just go to work to work. In my experience, when a man is satisfied he is not going to go to work and bother looking at porn there. Between sex with a partner (with whom you are satisfied and like) or watching porn, I'd say most men would prefer the real thing. Yes, some men do, but many men "lust after" girls who look like women. In other words, the development of the girl may fool the man into thinking that the girl is older. I think the appeal of teen porn, is that girls are still innocent. Many men are drawn to that. Even though some men may like to be sodomized, and some other may like to have sex with dead people or things like that. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
BigBangles Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 Hey, I agree with you that he was turned on by her and started looking at porn. She is in her mid 20's and the guy is 40 and likes young girls, (and the partner is older than him). So he must like her. Besides, if a guy is having regular sex and is happy, he wouldn't be looking at porn at work anyway. When guys got to work, they just work. You know how they are. Ariadne maybe he liked porn way before he met her. and maybe he doesn't like her anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 That makes kind of sense to me... that he must be attracted to those young women. (I don't know is he'd be in love with them, but most likely attracted, if they are nice looking and sexy etc). I am not arguing that he may appreciate the beauty of women youngor old, but to be attracted to beauty is different than fantasizing about young women because they are young. In my experience, when a man is satisfied he is not going to go to work and bother looking at porn there. Between sex with a partner (with whom you are satisfied and like) or watching porn, I'd say most men would prefer the real thing. I am not arguing about where they watch porn, but if he has only an internet connection at work, then he will watch at work. Yes, most men prefer real sex to porn, but that does not mean that real sex eliminates porn. Many, many men who watch alot of porn could have sex as often as they want and do, but they still love to look at visual images for variety while they masturbate. This kind of rush...good or bad....is not replaced by real sex. I think the appeal of teen porn, is that girls are still innocent. Many men are drawn to that. Even though some men may like to be sodomized, and some other may like to have sex with dead people or things like that. Agreed, but looking at "teens" is definitely different than looking at child porn. Again, for the umpteenth time, forty year old men don't feel forty. As Big Bangles said, Hannah assumes he likes her. If she is a college girl, she is an old teen, but technically he can date her. She has admitted to enjoying the attraction she assumes he has for her. Yet she thinks he is sick because he looks at women/girls her age. This would be considered a double standard. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 Ok. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 Okay, my wife is older than me. I like to look at porn of younger women. I work with younger women. Therefore, I am attracted to those younger women...and must like them. Umm kind of yes. Not all of them, and you certanly don't have to like them, but if this were the case, it would be a safe bet that you are sexually attracted to one or a few. Pretty young women turn you on on screen and they don't in real life, please... Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedGirl Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 On the other hand, I would not want him teaching my daughter. And yes, it does have a sleazy air about it. Here you kind of contradict yourself. If porn has absolutely no connection to real life, then he would be as safe as anyone to teach your daughter. I think it would be pretty foolish to assume that his porn preferences and his real life sexual preferences don't have at least some connection. Link to post Share on other sites
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