velvet Posted March 30, 2002 Share Posted March 30, 2002 Last night, a friend and I shopped. While I was in the dressing room, my ex beeps me on the Nextel. Hes saying F this, and F that. He and I had gotton in to an argument eariler yesterday about his paycheck. I explained to him, that I only type in what Im told! Anyway he starting fighting with me and the other girls in the office. Well after hours he beeps me, and says that hes going to get drunk for the next five days and anyone and everyone is invited. I thought to myself, this guy has lost his mind, I cant believe I ever feel for this fool. Anyways I had to treat myself to a new outfit for my second date tonight. I like this guy I meet a few weeks ago, but Im scared too. I dont know just how to read him. Like I said he is mr popular and all the girls know him at the clubs downtown. He is sexy, and smooth. I thing those are the ones to be very careful with. Im just confused, I have had my heart beaten and abused, I just want to cry. Im wondering if I can go through with dating again. My ex did a real big number on me and my perception of all men. My dates on his way over now, we have dinner reservations again at 8, Im dressed to kill. Im going to go out and have fun, but when Im attracted to man I tend to look into things too deep. I havent been able to control that. I would like a potential b/f, not a weekend lover. This guy wants to move fast, intimantly. This only our second date! This just might be the last. Ill let you guys know what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted March 30, 2002 Share Posted March 30, 2002 yep, let us know how it goes! good luck of course you can go through with dating again, what r u talkin' bout..... yr ex is bastard, but there's so many good people out there =) and we girls r lucky, b/c i think men r generally more likely to be good ppl than women... anyway, i hope u'r having fun... btw - i noticed that some guys who wanna go fast at first dont mind it when u slow 'em down - they'll slow down for u and respect you for that ... remember that the guy is gonna treat you the way you let him treat you! -yes Last night, a friend and I shopped. While I was in the dressing room, my ex beeps me on the Nextel. Hes saying F this, and F that. He and I had gotton in to an argument eariler yesterday about his paycheck. I explained to him, that I only type in what Im told! Anyway he starting fighting with me and the other girls in the office. Well after hours he beeps me, and says that hes going to get drunk for the next five days and anyone and everyone is invited. I thought to myself, this guy has lost his mind, I cant believe I ever feel for this fool. Anyways I had to treat myself to a new outfit for my second date tonight. I like this guy I meet a few weeks ago, but Im scared too. I dont know just how to read him. Like I said he is mr popular and all the girls know him at the clubs downtown. He is sexy, and smooth. I thing those are the ones to be very careful with. Im just confused, I have had my heart beaten and abused, I just want to cry. Im wondering if I can go through with dating again. My ex did a real big number on me and my perception of all men. My dates on his way over now, we have dinner reservations again at 8, Im dressed to kill. Im going to go out and have fun, but when Im attracted to man I tend to look into things too deep. I havent been able to control that. I would like a potential b/f, not a weekend lover. This guy wants to move fast, intimantly. This only our second date! This just might be the last. Ill let you guys know what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted March 30, 2002 Share Posted March 30, 2002 PS: remember our whole discussion in some posts below where u said u also feel very weird abotu saying yes to a guy? i know our reasons to feel like that are quite difft but ... recently, a guy i know directly told me that i seem the type of person to be mean to guys - basically i'm scary to date ... poof! so - i figured i gotta change the way i act around men - its fine to show that i like them, as long i dont go overboard... -> instant results! so what i wanted to tell you was - i think its worth it to let lotta men approach you - b/c they open up more quickly if they feel it's safe to do so - and u can tell sooner if it's a keeper or not ... as well as have fun ... just ranting eh? bye, -yes yep, let us know how it goes! good luck of course you can go through with dating again, what r u talkin' bout..... yr ex is bastard, but there's so many good people out there =) and we girls r lucky, b/c i think men r generally more likely to be good ppl than women... anyway, i hope u'r having fun... btw - i noticed that some guys who wanna go fast at first dont mind it when u slow 'em down - they'll slow down for u and respect you for that ... remember that the guy is gonna treat you the way you let him treat you! -yes Link to post Share on other sites
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