dana181 Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and it has been a great year. I have never spied on him on the computer but recently had a strange urge to do so after we viewed that dateline to catch a preditor show on tv. following this urge, I saw cookies from multiple teen porn websites: youngzilla, cumable teens, virginteens, etc. when i went to the websites, the girls looked liek they were 15 although I do not know if they were 15 or just very immature 18 year olds or if it matters. many of them were partly developed, all had breasts but def did not seem finished with puberty. i am confused as to whether this is an issue that i need to address with him or if it is me being ignorant or what. I dont care much for porn but accept it but i dont know if these websites are an indication that he is sick and i need to leave him or if i am just being crazy and overreacting.. please help. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Your computer - if not properly protected *cyber condom* - can pick up cookies all over the place. It's possible to click on one porn site (say adult females) - and have tons of popups - and end up with cookies. Look at his browser drop down list and bookmark lists - those only get in there if you type them in (drop down) or bookmark them to save them. Then if they are there - ask him bout them. Most all sites now have the disclaimer that all shown are over 18 - it's the law. You don't say how old you two are - if he's say 17 or 18, I really wouldn't sweat it even if he went there on purpose. If he's 35 - I'd be a lil more wary. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and it has been a great year. I have never spied on him on the computer but recently had a strange urge to do so after we viewed that dateline to catch a preditor show on tv. following this urge, I saw cookies from multiple teen porn websites: youngzilla, cumable teens, virginteens, etc. when i went to the websites, the girls looked liek they were 15 although I do not know if they were 15 or just very immature 18 year olds or if it matters. many of them were partly developed, all had breasts but def did not seem finished with puberty. i am confused as to whether this is an issue that i need to address with him or if it is me being ignorant or what. I dont care much for porn but accept it but i dont know if these websites are an indication that he is sick and i need to leave him or if i am just being crazy and overreacting.. please help. Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Why would you suspect him after watching that show? My wife and I have watched it together and I doubt she thinks that could be me. And I am not familiar with those sites, but if they are of legal age, they should have some disclaimer saying all girls are 18 or older. How old is he? If he is watching porn of any kind and you do not like him, then I think you should have a discussion with him. Since you snooped, you may want to simply ask him if he watches porn and what type and how often, etc. If he says he does not, then you have a problem. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 Even though it might have a disclaimer saying all girls or models are 18 doesn't mean they are. I'm sure there are many girls in the porn industry who are not of legal age, and Traci Lords comes to mind who lied about her age in the porn industry. They all thought she was 18 when infact she was only like 16 or 17 at the time. Alot of those girls though, they make up to look young, hair in pig tails short skirts, the school girl look etc. I'm assuming its to appeal to some mens fantasy of younger looking women or with youth, but personally I don't see whats so interesting in a girl that looks that young. Its not my thing at all. If it bothers you, the best thing to do is talk with him about it. Link to post Share on other sites
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