scaredinlove Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 What is more important a peerson looks and age your who they are.Would you rather be with a very good looking young person that will make your life miserable or with someonr older no as good looking that will transforn you life and make it wonderful? What you guys thing. Someone may say that they will want a good looking that will make your life wonderful, but the if you have the onlky two first choices, which one would you choose.And why being older is such a bad thing? questions question question....... Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 What is more important a peerson looks and age your who they are. Whaaaa???? Is it me..or does this make no sense whatsoever? Please clarify..thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I understand the question. Don't abide by any of the people say you should look for, judge for yourself and look more at what would be good for you. I believe there has to be some attraction to get started, but age should not make any difference. Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Over 15 years age difference and you're asking for trouble. Just my opinion having been there. Oh and looks are not first with me but I must find attraction in the person in SOME way for me to be with them. That's probably why I don't get the FWB thing. Why would anyone want to even sleep with anyone that they have no interest in outside of sex? I just don't get that. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Depends... Toy-boy age-gap, or young-chick age-gap? Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Depends... Toy-boy age-gap, or young-chick age-gap? What the heck is the difference really? Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 What the heck is the difference really? there'a a social stigma to the former. much less with the latter. I'm just sayin'..... Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 there'a a social stigma to the former. much less with the latter. I'm just sayin'..... Yes, I agree. But not as much anymore like there used to be. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 That's true. Gina Lollibrigita (misspelled) is 74 and just married a man 45. My husband is 7 yrs. younger than me and we have been happy for 14 years together and married for 9. I think it just depends on the person. Always follow your heart and not their purse strings. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 That's true. Gina Lollibrigita (misspelled) is 74 and just married a man 45. My husband is 7 yrs. younger than me and we have been happy for 14 years together and married for 9. I think it just depends on the person. Always follow your heart and not their purse strings. I'm not sure that's about love there, but who knows. 10-15 year gaps make sense to me though especially with the man being younger Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 The women I date are typically 8 to 10 years younger than I am, and that's about right for me. I guess I don't look my age (though I feel it lately), I have the gene thing going on. I really do not like women my age or older as much, but damn lately I've met a couple of ladies older than me that were knockouts. Weeewwwww! Link to post Share on other sites
Author scaredinlove Posted October 21, 2006 Author Share Posted October 21, 2006 I agree with most of you that the age thing is not important.I just ended a A with a older man and people are not so concerned about the A but they are more concerned about the age gap.Thats is crazy! Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I agree with most of you that the age thing is not important.I just ended a A with a older man and people are not so concerned about the A but they are more concerned about the age gap.Thats is crazy! That goes to show you how screwed up american thinking is. Link to post Share on other sites
Ssheena Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 I'm thinking this "guest" was just going around making random postings. Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 I would rather be with someone I relate with. And sometimes age plays a role in that. I'm 32 years old, and I have a hard time seeing myself with a 22 year old just like a 42 year old. But that's just me answering a hypothetical question. When I was in my 20's, i dated men in my 20's. Now I"m in my 30's and more attracted to men in their 30's. When I'm in my 40's, I'll be looking at men in their 40's. Age itself is just a number. Age in relation to others is sometimes more than a number. If I ever meet someone who is 10 years older, yes age will be one of those "flags". But if we relate on everything else, then age could be overcome. Nothing is ever set in stone, but it makes up part of the package and when you have multiple things going on, then that is when you decide what works for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Moai Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 My girlfriend is 17 years younger than me. It never occurs to me that this is the case, though. We have the same interests, lifestyle, and sense of humor. I have never connected with anyone the way I do her. Smoetimes the age thing will come up, and it's weird--I asked her how old she was when Jedi came out and she said, "three" and that threw me for a sec! but oh well, you can't help who you fall in love with. When I am 90 and she is 70 I don't think it will make a whole lot of difference. Link to post Share on other sites
Ssheena Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 My BF is 35 and I'm 48. Works well for me... I don't think he looks that young (grey hair/balding) and I know I look much younger than I am. As far as Ms. Lollabridigida, I'm in AWE! They have been together 22 years... she rocks! I've always like younger men. Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 Age shouldn't be an issue unless your like 16 and dating someone who is say 30. Then it's an issue and then it starts to get creepy. Lets see I'm 25 and my H is 30 so there is only a 5 year age gap so that doesn't sound to bad I guess. Plus we look younger then we are so I guess thats why no one has ever said anything to us before about it. So I'll say that if someone who is way older and is daing someone who is way younger then its a bad thing. Other wise seems ok to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Malady Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 Age is definitely important because every age group has a different passage in life. Link to post Share on other sites
aprilrain Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 Sometimes younger men are more honest in their love for you than old greedy horny ones..... The fact is you should be looking for someone who really loves you and age may play no role in it ........ But having said that I personally won't get along with younger men ......and I am not attracted to any older ones ... I would rather be with someone within my own age group.. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 Age is definitely important because every age group has a different passage in life. Very untrue, sometimes the passage in life is what makes thing interesting. Link to post Share on other sites
Malady Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 Very untrue, sometimes the passage in life is what makes thing interesting. Okay, so to some extent. I say someone in their 30s can be with someone in there 40s to 50s, because they know where they are in life. For an 18 year to be with say a 27 year old, they're in seperate places in they're lives. The most the both could have in common is a good time. When it comes down to the future, the 18 year old is still learning about the world. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 Okay, so to some extent. I say someone in their 30s can be with someone in there 40s to 50s, because they know where they are in life. For an 18 year to be with say a 27 year old, they're in seperate places in they're lives. The most the both could have in common is a good time. When it comes down to the future, the 18 year old is still learning about the world. Much better, and I would agree with that as well. Link to post Share on other sites
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