koolkat68 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 okay guys....i posted a thread about 2 weeks ago saying that i wasn't sure if my ex was interested in me again...she would call me here and there...when for about a month and a half we didnt talk at all...but for the last 2 weeks we have been talking alot (not about getting back together or anything, just stuff we used to talk about all the time when we were together...you know all the random stuff)...she even came to my house last monday which surprised me, because shes not the type of person to just get up and come over just to chill or anything like that....well we went to the movies friday...i didn't try anything like kiss, hold hands or anything of that sort...afterward we went to wal mart and went shopping for her niece's birthday...afterward we hung out for about 2 more hours and just talked....well heres the deal she's moving back home(out of state)....the reason she broke it off was because she didnt want it to be hard when she left....she will be going back home around thanksgiving....i dont understand why she would all of sudden want to talk to me everyday and hang out more than usual; when she's not at all like that and it could maybe make it harder to leave....but that being said i'm in the situation where i will be graduating college in december and i can in a sense follow what i want and need.....i'm pretty sure that she doesn't realize that i am willing to follow her....but i am...and i just wanted some advice on how i would let her know this without looking like a stalker or something....or anything you guys could help me with as far as getting her back...she's leaving in a about month......so i need to get on the ball...anything and everything would help...i'll keep you guys posted.... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 DAMN! NO IDEA! How the other person will view yer actions is only known to the other person. if u are already worried about being viewed by her as a 'stalker' isn't that a red flag! remember, if a person 'tags' a stalker label to someone who is not - that really has to be the final curtain on yer Broadway show! trust me. the day i saw an ex, pretend to reach for a phone, say she was calling the fuzz, then reported me to the royal Canadian mounted police for "thinking about her" and dropping off 12 pounds of Godiva chocolates was the day i changed the locks on the door, made an appointment to get my eyes re-examined, and hired D&D security to keep an eye on my luxury condo in south beach teasing... no one can read the mind of an other...just be yerself Link to post Share on other sites
Author koolkat68 Posted October 22, 2006 Author Share Posted October 22, 2006 does anybody else have some advice for me Link to post Share on other sites
Author koolkat68 Posted October 23, 2006 Author Share Posted October 23, 2006 well she come over today....just to smoke a ciggarete but ended staying for about an hour....what am i supposed to think????? Link to post Share on other sites
BorrowedLove Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 I think that you should go for it, and tell her how you feel. If you love her, then dont let her get away. Just make sure that is what you want to do. Moving somewhere is a big step. Link to post Share on other sites
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