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My fiancee broke up with me a week ago today. It was very difficult and painful for me, and I know it was rough for her as well....she agreed to marry me for god's sake! Now I'm in therapy and trying to fix my issues which made the relationship come apart. They were not big issues started by or really relating to us as a couple. They are deep-seeded childhood things of mine; basically just life. we have talked everyday since the break-up and we are on good terms. But obviously we were not on perfect terms to make it to this point. Now I miss her and her family and friends dearly. They all meant a lot to me and we cared for each other. I lost so much more than just her when she let me go. She expresses that she hopes things work and says that she needs to work on some of her own personal issues. I think this shows how much we really care for each other and hope to have the best for ourselves as individuals or hopefully a couple again. Now she expresses interest in going out for coffee on wednesday night. I, of course, really hope this happens. It remains in her hands. She has the power to get this going again, but she wants time for things to be solved. I respect this and I understand it, and at the same time I feel we could be 'a couple' immediately and pursue therapy throughout. Am I expecting too much? What am I to expect of a friendly coffee together? Has anyone experienced anything like this? Can anyone help?

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