Guest Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 "Interesting way of repaying the universe by having atleast an emotional affair with a married man and contributing to the demise of a marriage. You certainly have overstepped the boundaries and I do not know how you can continue giving "support" when you're causing more harm than good. Yah, I hear you justifying your reasons to remain his friend, to help him, and you don't want to let your romantic feelings come in the way. It's too late! Stop bs'ing yourself and look at the situation objectively. This man seems to be vulnerable and confused on what he wants in his life and you are simply adding to the confusion. You are asking him very personal questions with a hidden meaning. You are emotionally invested in his final decision on whether he stays with his wife or not. It's impossible for you to give him unbiased support. I don't know the story behind your divorce, but I imagine there was a lot of pain involved? How can you look at yourself in the mirror knowing you're causing just as much pain to someone else? Leave the MM alone. Like you, he will have support coming out of the ying yang. You are not the only one who can help him, and since you are not, leave him alone." I THINK I WILL TAKE THE ADVICE OF SOMEONE CLOSER TO THIS SITUATION THAN I AM...DGURL BELIEVES THAT ITS BEST TO STOP THE CONFUSION - U I THINK THAT IS NOW MY ROLE. OK...I AM OFF TO THE LIBRARY TO STUDY...SHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, VERY QUIET. TAKE CARE. Link to post Share on other sites
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